plainoldjared Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Last week I wrote in asking everyones opinion on whether or not I had over reacted to my gf lying about where she was. I thought she lied about where she was because she was cheating she says she made a stupid decision and that she wasnt doing anything wrong. We decided that we would meet on Saturday so that she could explain why she lied and so that we could (I guess) try and remedy the situation. Well I called her and this time she said "I know youre going to get mad but I was out late last night and Im too tired to talk today so lets talk tomorrow." Oh yea I was mad so I told her that I was busy Sunday, and that I couldnt believe that she would think that being too tired was good enough a reason to ditch me when she knows this is very important. She called me at 930 that night and asked if I wanted to go out but I had already called my boys and told them that I needed to go out otherwise I was going to drive myself crazy thinking about what she was doing. She flipped out and said that I was a jerk and that she was tired of me always working and never going out with her, she even threw in that I cared more about my friends than her. She knew that I had just started a new project which didnt require that I work 7 days a week 14 hours a day, unlike the one I had just finished, so her arguement was worthless at this point. All I said was, "You lied to me and today you told me you were too tired to talk to me, so I made plans. Im not going to sit around like an idiot and wait for you to get better so that you can grace me with your company. You should have told me that you were going to rest instead of making it clear that you were too tired to talk. Youre making me feel like your last resort." I feel betrayed, used and just stupid but I cant stop thnking about her and I just want her. I know shes lying, I can just sense it but I cant help but want to go back. I know I shouldnt because shes just going to do something even worse if she hasnt already and the truth is that I love her and care about her so much that I dont want to hate her. What can I do?
yippkiyay Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 OK maybe you should just kind of play it cool. date other people give her a taste of her own medicine. don't let her know its bothering u
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