J_K_H Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 I had a relationship of over a year end about six weeks ago. Both my girlfriend and I were working constantly and were just so run down that we tended to get really irritable towards each other. There was never a big fight, but just a lot of bickering towards the end which was the complete opposite of how the rest of the relationship had been. I did everything the wrong way groveling for a second chance and professing my love for her and telling her that I would change; obviously none of which worked. Our contact was on and off and we did get together a couple times and always enjoyed our time together. She told me that it would be too easy to just revert to where we had been in the relationship and cut off contact. Finally this weekend I sent a friendly text asking how she was and she quickly called me and stopped by my work to say hello. The following day we both called each other throughout the day and night having friendly and flirtatious conversations with her telling me to call her the next day because she was heading into work. I did, and she hasn’t returned my call. I really hope for a second chance with her as in the time apart I have made a lot of changes to my work schedule and lifestyle in general; as has she. At this point, I just don’t know how I should proceed. Do I attempt to call her again? Do I ask her to meet for coffee or dinner? I don’t want to be pestering and have avoided any relationship talk; but she’s all that’s on my mind and I want to go about this the right way rather then pushing her away. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Author J_K_H Posted October 22, 2007 Author Posted October 22, 2007 It’s actually been a little over two months now.
Author J_K_H Posted October 23, 2007 Author Posted October 23, 2007 Well...I called and left a message again last night and didn't get a response. So confused as to why she would be in contact talking about how she missed me, tell me her Mom was asking about me, tell me how good I looked, and to call her...then ignore my two attempts to call her. So confused.
Author J_K_H Posted October 23, 2007 Author Posted October 23, 2007 I haven’t been able to think of anything else for the past two days. Was this just a play on my emotions? I assume at this point I should revert back to no contact because it’s clear that I am still too vulnerable since having her ignore my last two calls has really hurt me. I just don’t understand why she would come to see me and then call or tell me to call her throughout the day and night on Saturday just to suddenly not take my calls on Sunday and Monday. It’s all I can do not to call her right now, but is there even a point to do so?
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