loveinlife Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Im currently dating a wonderful attractive, smart, caring, kind of girl.. I like this girl but she haven't said anything sweet to me.. which makes me think about her intentions to be with me, i don't know her motivation or why she likes to see me bc she hasn't said anything yet, i want true love. we been dating for two weeks only.. that i guess makes seeing the possibility to know kinda early. She was at my house last night and we slept together. At the same time, i dont want a girl just looking for sex or a rebound bc she just got out of a relationship, six months ago. Maybe nothing is forever and that she is there only for the time being like all the other girls who i have been with. I guess im stressing about it. Im looking for something meaningful, previous girls who like me get really sprung just to talk to me.. maybe im very pessimestic right now bc she hasn't said what makes me shine amongst the other potential she has. Am i dealing with my own security issue? I only want the best girl that can offer what i want. I don't want to put all that i have if she isn't doing the same.. I guess im being very careful as to watch out for my own emotions. I have been hurt really bad before from my first love, most of it was on my part to stick around in that kind of abusive verbal talk my ex used to give me. Im happy that i have met this girl, not knowing what will happen kinda keeps me distanced and is pulling all the happy things that can happen for us if she has what i want, i guess its that security feeling. We are not yet bf and gf and she is over at my house already.. Please give me some feed back, this issue is making me stress. Thanks for reading my problem. =)
MR2Aaron Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 If you've only been seeing her for two weeks (you may want to be more specific about what that means exactly... Two weeks since the first date? Since you met?), I don't think I'd worry about it. It's not like you should be expecting to be all serious at this point.
Author loveinlife Posted October 22, 2007 Author Posted October 22, 2007 If you've only been seeing her for two weeks (you may want to be more specific about what that means exactly... Two weeks since the first date? Since you met?), I don't think I'd worry about it. It's not like you should be expecting to be all serious at this point. I've met her three weeks ago, we have been dating since two weeks ago, we have seen each other 4 times. Coming to think about where i am coming from it is still early and maybe she is testing out the waters... in my mind she is the gf potential kind of girl. maybe like you said too soon to be serious and too early to find out. Thanks for the comment.
avduo Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 I've met her three weeks ago, we have been dating since two weeks ago, we have seen each other 4 times. Coming to think about where i am coming from it is still early and maybe she is testing out the waters... in my mind she is the gf potential kind of girl. maybe like you said too soon to be serious and too early to find out. Thanks for the comment. Just relax. It's way too early to expect anything honestly. Besides, you should be able to tell if she's into just by how she acts, not by what she says at this point. Basically, if she's there, she probably likes you. Otherwise, why would she even waste her time?
Author loveinlife Posted October 22, 2007 Author Posted October 22, 2007 Just relax. It's way too early to expect anything honestly. Besides, you should be able to tell if she's into just by how she acts, not by what she says at this point. Basically, if she's there, she probably likes you. Otherwise, why would she even waste her time? Your right avduo! thanks for the response. I should relax.. the stress really got to me. This morning she asked "when we held hands last sat, did you ask me to be your gf?" I was so happy that i heard it.. So i asked her "Thats what i've been wanting to hear, i remember telling you that i want something meaningful and i pick you!" i then asked "would you be my gf?" "She shyly said yes" and she giggled haha. She made me so happy!
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