Woggle Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Around my way summer seems to have never ended and some days you can still go out with shorts so the crowds are still at the clubs and bars. There are two women that I always see hanging out at this one place and they always seem to have men hanging around them and fawning over them. They play the same game every time I see them and they seem to enjoy men fawning over them. For the life of me I can't see what is so attractive about either of them. They just look trashy and they seem to have snotty attitudes and from what I hear they never tip the bartended or the waitstaff. The last one is sort of tongue in cheek but the point remains that they are completely unappealing to me but men seem to fall over them. These are the same men who will one day be on here crying because their wife cheated on them with some scumbag. Why is trash so attractive to people of both genders?
lino Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 I dunno what your definition of 'jerks' is but I've always been involved with women that have a heap of attitude. Not the trashy type but they're nearly always really sexy/hot girls that do get much attention from other guys. It's not that I go for just that type but they're the only ones who ask me out or respond positively to my invitations. Some of them have been really good at playing the genuine girl but their true self comes out soon enough. Then the ladies who are really more genuine, as well as being attractive, don't seem to show much interest in me at all Just wanted to add Woggle, that I think the guys going for the girls you mention are most probably just after easy sex like birdie said. I'm long over that stage & am interested in a genuine LTR, so I don't go fishing for those types.
halfarock Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Just my opinion but it seems to me that many people are insecure and have a horrible time at finding a partner. So they usually end up with these other people who tend to be users, who take what they can get out of the insecure people and not really caring about the insecure people often bounce around using person after person. This can be seen in that often insecure people tend to have few partners whereas users tend to have many. A phenomenon that I see from time to time is a woman who will be like queen bee or whatever. You’ll see her around and always she will be surrounded by 2,4, or more men. She’ll have them categorized as brothers (guys that follow and support her without her having to do anything) and friends (same as brother but she’ll have sex with). All of these men will have little, if any options so they stay loyal to her.
birdie Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 I've seen both sexes hold court like that. some women are very good at stroking male egos to some degree and I think it is difficult for guys to ignore someone that keeps flattering them, touching their arms or things like that. when men do it it's usually a really good looking one surrounded by younger girls who are perhaps a bit naive. either case just ignore it. it's people out there for an ego trip, who cares
woodsfield Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Why is trash so attractive to people of both genders? one man's trash is another man's treasure.
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