Lucky555 Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 So i was seeing a guy last year and then it resorted to just hanging out with other friends socially. I decided i didnt want to continue waiting for him to make up his mind about me so i decided not to go out again. Well we continued talking online because i wanted to see "what we were" since he was still single after 2.5 months. Obviously he didn't commit and he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship..ex was still calling him. But even though we still continued talking online he stopped talking to me. SO i stopped and it has been 4.5 months...until the other night Now I saw him again in a social setting and he was talkative and acted like nothing ever happened. He was friendly and i don't know now. I am wondering what is going on? He also was flirting and his body language indicated that he liked me by being close to me...but he has not said anything. I am scared that he is going to try to lead me on again or something. I can be friends with this guy...so do i just play it cool unless he asks me out on a date..and not hanging out. I understand people need time to figure themselves out and its just like i rather not be heartbroken. By having a date it would show that he is ready for something like a relationship? Also, if were out should i dance with him...let him hang out with me "close" like that or make sure i have a define line where if hes not with me he might as well leave me alone so that i can find someone else and be receptive to them. If i am "with" him when i hang out, i might miss the opportunity of someone else. I am not sure where i stand with him since he has not said anything and its like nothing ever happened. HELP! Ps still attracted to him.
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