Kerewin Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 So, I hung out with my ex for the first time yesterday. It was an event we'd had planned since before the breakup (he broke up with me 2 weeks ago because he said I felt more like a friend). At various times during the day, he spontaneously pulled me to him, and hugged me, stroked my hair, touched my hand, etc. Once, I was standing in front of him and he wrapped his arms around me, pulled me to him, and put his face into my hair. The touches felt very loving, but not sexual or fraternal. I can't quite describe it. On the drive back, he asked if I wanted to come to his place. I said no, I didn't want a FWB. I wanted to be free to date again, and if I were "casually" sleeping with him, I knew I wouldn't be able to. He said he thought that would be my answer. I told him I'd had a date already, and he told me he'd had a date too. Neither one of us said if the dates were good or bad. We parted in a very friendly manner and he said he always had lots of fun with me and would call me again. What do you all think? I'm confused by all the touching--he was never that affectionate when we were dating. I honestly don't think he was just trying to get lucky.
Fancee Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Its touch and go thing for some women. Some can't get the guy back casually having sex and next thing you know they back together. Some can't do it. But I believe the best way to get to a guy is thru his stomach and that is -his stomach touching yours. You just got to know the difference - is he just after a booty call and his close encounters were trying to test you to see if he could make his move. Or were they genuine? Then you will know what which way to go. Just keep observing is his actions he make toward you.
Author Kerewin Posted October 21, 2007 Author Posted October 21, 2007 Although I disagree that sex would be the way to get this particular guy back Fancee (because women hit on him ALL the time and sex is pretty easy for him to get), I agree that I might want to see how a couple of more encounters between us play out so I can better gauge his feelings. Anyone else have an opinion?
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