MikeChurdh Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 I just wanted to say that I am a 28 year old guy who has gone 9 years without going on a date with a woman. Is that something that says anything about me? Basically I have givn up on teh dating scene and have found alternative outlets for my desires. But is 9 years really that long to go without a date?
BlueEyedSarah Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 As long as you are enjoying your life and doing good for yourself I don't see why you should be worrying about it.
Krytie TV Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 No, but your posting obsession does. It seems like you have a few issues that make you very self conscious. These behaviors will very much come out in your dating personality unless you find a way to channel them.
Oregon Blackberry Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 No, but your posting obsession does. It seems like you have a few issues that make you very self conscious. These behaviors will very much come out in your dating personality unless you find a way to channel them. It's not really fair to criticize him for making a post. It is a very fair and valid question. what obsession are you talking about? I have read most of your posts and you definitely have more than a few issues, dude. At least he doesn't go out and date women just to see how many he can get in the sack, like you have posted.
Oregon Blackberry Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 As far as dating, 28 is pretty young. I would try to get out on the scene with dating again. There are a lot of great women out there. you just have to find the one you're compatible with and who you make a mutual connection with. Let friends and coworkers know you're available to be set up. Make yourself go to events, parties, hikes, get-togethers....I do think that experiencing a romantic connection with someone is one of the joys of life, and it is important that you experience this and not let this pass you by. Don't back off and hide from it.
directx Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 date as many women as you can, at the same time. Dont get in any commitments. Just enjoy. When you do get hitched, find someone rich so you don't have to work. (maybe)
Oregon Blackberry Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Well, sure, but I think that this poster is really looking for a connection with a woman, not just sex.
directx Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Well, sure, but I think that this poster is really looking for a connection with a woman, not just sex. Well, he mentions 'outlets'. I wonder what that is, exactly. Toys? Prostitutes? But he should go for both sex and connection.
Star Gazer Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 I just wanted to say that I am a 28 year old guy who has gone 9 years without going on a date with a woman. Is that something that says anything about me? Basically I have givn up on teh dating scene and have found alternative outlets for my desires. But is 9 years really that long to go without a date? I think it speaks volumes. If you haven't had a date in 9 years, and you're only 28, I'd be able to reach only one conclusion: either (forgive me here) you're a complete freak, or having a meaningful relationship is not high up on your priority list.
Author MikeChurdh Posted October 21, 2007 Author Posted October 21, 2007 Please, there is no need to apoplogize. And you are exactly correct in what you have said, I do agree with your response one hundred percent. Thanks for taking the time to respond, I appreciate it. "The Falkland Islands War only proves one thing-the good guys do not always win."
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