Phumfeinz Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 It's been 3 months now, and quite frankly I'm sick of pining after her. This won't wipe away all my feelings, but it'll sure help. I just threw away everything linked to her. I know I'll regret it come tomorrow, but I have to do this otherwise I'll never be able to move on properly. Clothes, photos, mementoes, letters etc all in the bin. I also deleted all the emails we've sent each other, as well as (and I know for a fact I'll regret this the most) our sex videos/photos/you get the point. Time to move on and forget about that bitch.
Scorpio13c Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Right on Phum! Been 3 months for me too & you just reminded me of what a B%tch my ex was at the end! Keep up the great attitude Scorp
sedgwick Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Is there any way you guys could talk about women without calling them b*tches? It would be greatly appreciated.
sao2 Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 My ex was not a %!^$* but some women truly are, just like some men are @$$30!#$. Anyways it took you 3 months, when my ex broke up with me over the phone the emails were deleted by the time we got off the phone. Pictures and letters were right afterwards. I think she was really upset about that but that's just how we got to roll sometimes. Oh and the sex videos and the like will just hurt for the time being. I think getting rid of them is the right thing.
Scorpio13c Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Sorry Sedgwick, please don't take offense, what i really meant was, what a "Unpleasant women" my ex was toward the end. Hope that's better ) Scorp
Author Phumfeinz Posted October 23, 2007 Author Posted October 23, 2007 Is there any way you guys could talk about women without calling them b*tches? It would be greatly appreciated. My apologies sedgwick, I meant not to offend. But if you knew this woman and what she's done, I think you would be inclined to agree
sao2 Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 You know Phumfeinz, I know it seems like a silly little step, but I could tell I was making progress when I realized that I would rather be over her than have her back. I can tell that you are there as well. Keep on keeping on, you'll make it through to the other side.
Sanslatete Posted October 23, 2007 Posted October 23, 2007 I know it seems like a silly little step, but I could tell I was making progress when I realized that I would rather be over her than have her back. I'm hoping I have got to that stage sao, she was nasty the last few weeks before the split and I couldn't go through any of that bullshi^ again. I still love her in my heart, we had a lot of good times, but something went bad and it could never be like it was, knowing what I do now. I just want to get her outta my head and get on with my life.
Curious139 Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 You confirm what I thought - it is easier to overcome the loss when you have been badly treated and become angry. All power to you. The only reservation I have is we don't shouldn't refer to women as b*****s although I completely understand your private view cos you have your reasons.
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