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i really like this older guy, i'm not sure that he feels the same. what do you think?

confused_lady

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confused_lady New Member

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ok i 'll try not to make it long.

 

basically i have liked this older man for ages. i tried to get over him by focussing on someone else but it didn't really work. He is always nice to me, he pokes at me sometimes to get my attention, talks about stuff, asks me what my plans are for the weekend, tells me about his, tells me i am flirtatious, has a nickname for me,wanted to know who i liked,(wouldn't stop asking for a while there). he even told someone how he would please me better than they ever could(sexually). we never had sex.i am 25. so i'm not some little 13 yr old girl. and i catch him watching me and he has even complimented me before in front of others. we work together and i don't know if he's just flirting.what do you think?is it possible he thinks i don't think of him that way?

jophil28 Established Member

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Is he married ?

In an LTR ?

What exactly do you wanr to know here. ?

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confused_lady New Member

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no he isn't married but i feel like sometimes he messes with my head

LN99 Established Member

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How much older then you is he?

 

Does he act this way to anyone else you both work with? Is he just naturally flirty?

 

If not, could be that he has a thing for you. Maybe the idea of winning your attention boosts his ego?

 

The question though is if you like him? Do you? If so, you should pursue it. But, really make sure he is completely single first before doing so.

 

Beware dating someone that you work with though. IF things don't work out, it could get awkward.

 

The only other option is to just NOT pursue him. Keep your crush to yourself until someone else comes along.

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My girlfriend is well more than 10 years younger than I am. When we first met we got along wonderfully but I figured that nothing would come of it because she was so much younger. But we hung out at the same place all the time and flirted a lot. One day while we were talking, she suddenly got real serious and went on and on about how she wasn’t attracted to men her age and how she found older men so much more interesting and sexy. We have a wonderful relationship. The age difference has never been a problem. She was in her late 20’s when we met.

Pentula77 Established Member

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sounds like you like him, just ask him out...

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