shyman Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 This new girl started in the place where i work, she was very quite and kept herself to herself. I started talking to her as I thought it would be nice as no one else was. A couple of weeks past and I found myself getting attracted to her so I asked her for her number last week. She gave it to me. I texted her later in the day asking if she was ok and if she would like to go the movies with me. No reply for 3 days. She said only just got money on her phone and that the movies would be good. Bare in mind the day after would be the first time I saw her in work since texting her. I suggested to go on friday and she said cant make that lets go sunday. Saw her in work on the friday just gone and asked if sunday was still ok? She said no going to a class and suggested we go the friday coming up. I cant do this friday so I texted her yesterday asking if we could do saturday instead? No reply. Looking at my previous thread I have been in this situation before. I have learnt from that and controlled myself. I am confused as she is nice to me in work and laughs at what I say. As I have mentioned before she is a very quite person so it is difficult to talk to her in work. It wont be awkward in work unless I myself make it awkward, right?
Lunar Sonata Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 All the signs point to leave her alone for a bit. Ball is in her court now.
MikeChurdh Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 My man is right on target again with his advice. Back off a little bro, give her some space and some time to decide what she wants. I know it sucks to be patient but sometimes that is what is called for. Good luck! "The Falkland Islands War only proves one thing-the good guys do not always win."
Author shyman Posted October 24, 2007 Author Posted October 24, 2007 Right came into work today and seen her. She said hi to me I said hi back. Nothing got mentioned about the text/going to the movies. I am really confused here as when I do speak to her she seems nice and laughs at me. She also agreed to go the movies sometime even though the response was a bit delayed. Also in work most of my friends are girls and when I speak to them she gives them looks and stuff. I think I have controlled myself really well as I would usually text the girl again. I see her in work on sunday, should I ask her if shes ok for sunday night? I really just want her to say yes or no! Would it be stupid if I just come out and ask her in work if see would like to go out sometime or not??
Blamed0 Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 No. do NOT ask her in work in front of your other friends. Firstly, she could be embarrassed, and that might force her to say yes at the moment you confronted her, and later on after you 2 are alone, she will say No. Give her some time, don't be too eager, and don't seem desperate. Just wait for her to re-ask you again for your offer to the movies or whatever, and that will make it your decision to either take her out, or not.
Author shyman Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 Right she cam up with another day and cancelled on me again. she said 'im sry about this but can we go out another time? im a bit too tired n need n early nite as went out the nite b4 x.' I thought i shudnt reply to this but i did jus incase she thought i was bein funny. i sed 'nw, wen r u next available then?' no reply. Seen her in work no mention of it wot so ever. Wots goin on here?!?! I feel like jus ignoring her now. Should I?
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