Etoile013 Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 :love: Hi, I'm new to this site and really needed an answer to my problem. I'm 29 yrs old and my husband and I have been married for 8yrs but have been together for ten. For the past year and a half or two, I've had this crush on this guy that I work with part-time and my husband not only happens to know him pretty well, but think's that this guy has a crush on me too and although I haven't and admited to my husband how I feel, he knows that I have a crush on this guy. I try not to flirt and avoid the man as much as I can to try to make the feeling that I have for him go away but for some reason, he seems to always know when I'm coming and we always end up running into eachother. The feeling seems to be getting stronger for me. It's not going away one bit. I see it in this man's eyes how he feels but I also see that he respects the fact that I'm married. He tries not to be too pushy. And even though things are rocky with my husband, I don't want to hurt him in any way. But I feel that my husband is moving in a direction and me in another. I want children and he's 43yrs old, already got two and wants no more. My time clock is ticking. What am I suppose to do, wait another 10 yrs for him to tell me that he still wants no more kids??? I love him dearly but this has really put a strain on our relationship I can't trick him into having more he'll only resent me. And this guy, he' 37 and has two of his own from prev. My husband, keeps throwing up hints about me moving on. But it just seems so hard. I don't want to make the wrong move. Please, help!!!
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