Donza Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I am a desperate man atm. I have exams approaching, i am nearly being sacked from work, i am alone in this god forsaken city. Away from family and friends. Yet i still pine for her. I keep wondering why does she never text or call me anymore. I thought i had moved on... We broke up towards the end of June. I have put on weight, due to my hectic work schedule and exams. I dont feel 100% at all. Why can i just get over her. I wonder if she ever feels the same way about me, if she ever thinks about me. I will be seeing her at a friends wedding in a month. I have been dreading the date for a while now. I have only broken contact once, and that was when one of her family members passed away. She responded. A week later i saw her in a resteraunt, but decided to leave her alone. I later found out she was wanting to talk to me. Despite the fact she blatently saw me. Cant quite believe we were going to announce our engagement in Novemeber either.
directx Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Hey Tony! Don't be so desperate! Why don't you move back home to your friends since your job is in the crapper anyway! Get a new start. Maybe take up boxing or drive a taxi or be a male house nanny. Get a fresh start! Work so hard so that when people see you they don't have to ask 'Who's the Boss?', because you will be the boss. Its tough being a stranger in a strange land. Things will change. Before you know it, you will meet a nice girl, with a pretty name like Angela or something, and then settle down. I'd skip the wedding.
Author Donza Posted October 20, 2007 Author Posted October 20, 2007 I'd skip the wedding. I am so tempted. I really am. But th guy is close to me. Basically i was dating his soon to be sister in law. I am planning on only going for a bit then going home..
directx Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I am so tempted. I really am. But th guy is close to me. Basically i was dating his soon to be sister in law. I am planning on only going for a bit then going home.. Then you should definitely go. ANd bring a date. Maybe an older red head who is frisky (but make sure she is not a moana. You don't need the attention) or a tall blond! Who knows? You might have fun! Good luck!
uniqueone Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Then you should definitely go. ANd bring a date. Maybe an older red head who is frisky Because we know all redheads are frisky..... You don't need the attention) or a tall blond! You will some day mature (I hope) and no longer judge women by hair color. Donza, I soooo....soooo....know how you feel. Actually yours is worse than mine because yours was more serious and you have to see her in person. Look, you have a month and you can get in a better frame of mind by then even if you have to fake it. Can you find the time to get out and take walks? Find a way you can fit it in. Study while you're riding an exercise bike. Take a walk at lunch and bring your sandwich along. This will help you feel a little better, it will help you tone up and it will get you outside of your thoughts. You might even find that you end up talking to people out there. When you start obsessing over those thoughts about her, force yourself to stop. Have a picture in your mind of something you enjoy and switch your mind to that right away. (or even use a real picture) Can you try any of this?
brothermartin Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 This may not help you at all man, but Im in the same boat you are. If it means anything, Im sorry we're both going through this. Just know that you're not alone.
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