oheaton Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Hi, Let me just explain what happened. 6 Weeks ago my ex broke up with me, we went out for about 2 and a half days. I know it wasn't a long time but the time was fantastic! Anyway we remained friends after the break up and we see each other almost all the time at school (not on purpose just accidentally). For the first week or so I had no contact with her at all and then after that we started talking again and we met up at opening evening at school, we talked and she told me that she had been through short relationships before and they just didn't work so thats why she ended ours. Moving forward now. I recieved a text from her the other night saying: "Heya, how r u, ma m8s r sayin u'v got gf, nd dat u dnt lyk me as a m8 animor is ani ov it tru?" No why would she be bothered if I am going out with someone else if we aren't together anymore? I really want to tell her that I still like her and want her back but I don't want to push her away or not be mates with her. So what should I do? Do you think No Contact is a good idea for a bit or should i speak to her while I still have the chance, while she is still single? Thanks for reading Please can I have some advice about this.
carolinaboy Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 if its high school or middle school, 2 days or whatever doesnt matter. you can have fun like that with every girl. i wouldnt sweat this at all looking back on the past. i say just keep it casual. it was only two days ....if u get all intense on her over two days thatd be weird. just play it cool and give her a little bit but not everything. just have fun.
Author oheaton Posted October 21, 2007 Author Posted October 21, 2007 Thanks for the advise, I have decided that it is a bit rediculous to want some back after just 2 days, considering what most of the people on the forum have been through. So once again thanks for the advice and I have decided just to be relaxed when I see her and keep my options wide open.
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