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when does two people dating become a couple?


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Hi everyone,

I have just started dating a great guy, we've only been on 4 dates, and we only recently met, so ltheres still lots of 'getting to know eachother' to do! My question is, is there a right time to ask about when we might decide to be exclusive/a couple/etc...i know guys are different, and even if he really likes me, I guess the average guy might want to move naturally slower on the whole 'couple' deal than a girl naturally would...I get the feeling he likes me, but at the same time, he's quite a masculine type, and I wonder if he'd want to move slower on this than me, as thats his natural inclination (and I'm no relationship crazed female, lol, but do like him, but I don't want to scare him off by bringing this up in some way that might freak him out)...lol, dating-such a minefield!...any ideas? (-:

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It varies, but some milestones would include:

 

having slept at each other's place more than once

doing things together like shopping, running errands, etc.

lots of talk about upcoming plans, sometimes months in the future.

agreement to be monogamous.

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