Lookn4love Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 This kind mind boggles me, why is it when men are having sex they always ask "whos pu@$y is this" is it a manly thing for men to say that or what is the reasoning behind saying that? I have asked several times and they would always say its just a saying but to me i doubt its just a saying, so what does it mean when he says it?
huh Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I'm guessing it's some sort of territorial thing. It's tempting to answer that it's a loaner one, isn't it?
concernedquestion Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I agree.. I have never heard this before, but, then again, I haven't had too many relationships. It seems like it's some sort of territorial thing.. but, you could maybe tell him that you don't like that question and see what happens.
huh Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Oh & to add, I've only had one guy ask me that. My initial thought was did he hit his head against the headboard & get disoriented and now needs a reminder of where he is & who he's with?
Sean0775 Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I've never used that phrase in my life and doubt I ever will. It takes a really insecure guy to constantly need reassurance that his girlfriend is "his".
Timberlane Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Uh, where exactly are you meeting these men? Sounds like yet more lame gangsta-pimp speak.
Tropicalchris Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 That has got to be the funniest reply I have ever heard! I have never used that, nor would ever think of that. But you know what, I think he just wants an answer. Say "My pussy, whose d@#$ is this?" I don't know tho...that is a bit funny...
bish Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 This kind mind boggles me, why is it when men are having sex they always ask "whos pu@$y is this" I always say this during sex? Hmmm....I guess I never noticed.
Lizzie60 Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 This kind mind boggles me, why is it when men are having sex they always ask "whos pu@$y is this" is it a manly thing for men to say that or what is the reasoning behind saying that? I have asked several times and they would always say its just a saying but to me i doubt its just a saying, so what does it mean when he says it? No men has ever asked me that... I guess they're smart enough to know it's mine... Never heard about that either... strange.
reelwoman Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 yuck yuck yuck!!!!!!! NEVER heard this outside of the rape scene in "She's Gotta Have it"----that is just creepy!! How about sort of looking down and saying, "oh my god! I have no idea how that got here! where did MINE go??? "
Storyrider Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I don't know how to ask this nicely, and I mean no offense, but are you dating brothers from the same frat house or something? It sounds like they all stole that line from a movie.
Touche Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 You guys are funny. I've never had a man say that to me either. How about "You really want it don't you?" Nah, I'm always in bed in this unnatural position! Who doesn't read a book with their legs spread or their butt up in the air?
Trialbyfire Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 No, never heard that one before. Response: "Is that your pet name for Rosie P.?"
oppath Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 While I remember all the things that come out of my mouth , this is not one of them. I might talk about my sexual organ, and ask the girl about it. I don't know. Chances are the guy is just trying to talk dirty. I've been with girls that really like this and girls who don't. The ones who do like the dirty talk, often want me to be very aggressive and go so far as to call them sluts and whores in bed. It shocked me at first. I'd chalk it up as a lame and uncreative way to talk dirty.
uniqueone Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I was asked that once. I said: "It's Harold's. Why do you ask?" For some reason, it sorta killed the mood after that...... No, I've never been asked that. If I was, I probably would have told them to go down there and look for the patent label on it. That's an insecure guy. It's also unevolved. He's showing that he's beaten out the other jungle apes in mating you. (He doesn't beat his chest afterwards, does he?) Next time he does it, look at the calendar and say..."Hmmmm....it's Tuesday?......then it would be yours then, I guess....."
underpants Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Etiquette would dictate the OP to firmly spank the partner's butt cheeks and say "What's my name, biatch?". With the response of her name she should say "That's right".
norajane Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I've never been asked that. I did have a bf who would sometimes refer to his penis as my toy.
KenzieAbsolutely Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 he's trying to talk dirty, and he's doing it in way that makes him feel powerful. not that hard to figure out. if you don't like it, don't have sex with someone who says that to you. if it seems to keep happening, tell someone before you have sex that people have said things like that to you in the past and that you're not into it. you should never be uncomfortable when in you're in a sexual situation with someone.
directx Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 That is an odd thing to say. But I think its better to say something like "Your p*ssy is almost as good as the one i had last night." or "Hey! I rate your p*ssy a solid six out of ten!" Because that really gets her moving like a mad woman during the act.
uniqueone Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 That is an odd thing to say. But I think its better to say something like "Your p*ssy is almost as good as the one i had last night." or "Hey! I rate your p*ssy a solid six out of ten!" Because that really gets her moving like a mad woman during the act. Maybe she wasn't moving becasuse she wasn't aware the act had started..... :laugh:
directx Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Maybe she wasn't moving becasuse she wasn't aware the act had started..... :laugh: You are so cruel!!! I'd respond but i cannot afford another infraction! you win this round uniqueone! And so I stay on topic, have you told him you don't like it when he says that?
uniqueone Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 You are so cruel!!! I'd respond but i cannot afford another infraction! you win this round uniqueone! That wasn't towards you, that was in general.
WaterTiger Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Who's is it? It's MINE and so are your balls!
jophil28 Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 This kind mind boggles me, why is it when men are having sex they always ask "whos pu@$y is this" is it a manly thing for men to say that or what is the reasoning behind saying that? I have asked several times and they would always say its just a saying but to me i doubt its just a saying, so what does it mean when he says it? Geez here we go again - the OP asked "why do MEN ask..." and what do we get in reply ? A bunch of know-it-all, femi-doozies answering in behalf of the guys. And we had the usual suspects with the usual snipey, shyt attack answers , "..he is insecure .. unevolved.. frat boys .. yada yada . big yawn .." .Women do NOT know how men think for pete's sake. Not a clue. The answer to the OP's question is this - it means diddly. Just one of those flippy lines like "who luves ya baby." Next important question ?.
Lunar Sonata Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Easy. Guy wants to hear you talk about your pssy by saying "You're fcking my pssy." He didn't forget but some guys find it sexy when they hear "Fck my pssy. Yeah, lick my clit." etc.
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