fray718 Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I just need to vent cuz I just ended a bad date with some guy who I was totally NOT into (met him from online). I tried something spontaneous this time and just posted to see if anyone wanted to go out last minute....well ofcourse it backfired and totally my fault. At the end of the date, he tried to hug me n I just took out my hand cuz i just wanted to shake hands but he forced his hug on me anyway and even tried to kiss me forcefully I just ducked haha. Here I am thinking bout that one guy from online I REALLY liked and prob the fact that I felt I related/connected with him so well made me freak out n cancel on him before even meeting with him (this was about 2 weeks ago). Gosh, this is crazy cuz I havent even met him before, yet I miss him . I actually miss him! And I was thinking of my ex and also how much I miss him as well. Is this normal after a bad date? Gosh, I feel so depressed rite now. Sorry, just needed to vent.
tmarie55 Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Don't let a bad date make you start thinking about things that didn't suck as much! (ie: your ex) Move forward, it's not the end of the road. You're just feeling down for a moment...we all go through it. Contact the guy you cancelled on, and check out some new guys!
pandagirl Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 yes, move forward! i think you should call up the guy you canceled on. i know it's scary when you really like someone but it's better not to have any regrets, right? i feel like i was on the other end of someone liking me, but too scared to do anything situation... and i'm still stinging from it a bit!
miracgirl Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I always feel like that after a bad date. That's what keeps me from going out on more dates. I'm scared i'm going to miss my ex even more if I don't like the date. It's a stupid way of thinking though, because meeting someone else is the only way to really get you to move on.
Oregon Blackberry Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Don't beat yourself up over this. There must have been something in your gut which told you something was "off" with the online guy. Right now you are simply lonely from the bad date, and not having a boyfriend for a while. You miss the attention you were getting from the first guy. You didn't even meet him, so you can't really have that strong of feelings yet. It could be really possible that if you had met in person, there would have been no sparks for you, you just don't know. Right now you are exaggerating your feelings for the 'online guy I never even met' because you're lonely. Again, don't beat yourself up over it. I'm pretty sure he wasn't "the one" since your instinct is usually right, and deep down it was your subconscious which cancelled on the guy. p.s. Don't ever post on the internet saying "let's go out, last minute." Do you know what kind of creeps you could end up with that way? It could be a dangerous situation!
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