jgarrard28 Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 So for those of you who didn't see my post a few days ago, my ex has been reaching out to me subtly with text messages and Myspace visits and comments. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t132556/ This has been going ever since late September. The contact she's been initiating gradually becomes less and less subtle over time. This morning she called me. I was expecting it, but I didn't know how I was going to react to it until it actually happened. I didn't answer because I was curious to see if she would leave a voicemail. She did. She didn't sound very upbeat, and she wasn't specific about anything. She just said "Hey Joe, this is Elizabeth. OK, well, call me back whenever you can, OK thanks. Bye." From the tone of her voice she sounded a little nervous too. I am feelings all kinds of emotions right now. First of all, I met a girl who caught my interest last night. I haven't been interested in a girl on this level since the breakup. It was just a weird coincidence. I'm really scared to find out what she wants to talk about, whatever it is. I'm not sure what she's doing. She "apparently" is really serious with this other dude, and she keeps trying to initiate contact. I'm afraid if I don't call her back, the next thing she's going to to is come to my house. I didn't think I was going to feel this way. It's like when it starts happening the way you want it to, you realize that being on your own isn't so bad, and that maybe you don't even want to bother. I don't know what she wants. It could be anything. Honestly, I don't think she's content with the situation she's in. I don't think she ever got closure on our relationship, she just kinda ran away from it and found a distraction. The problem is I've been working on myself and moving forward. For the first time in awhile, I REALLY don't know what I want. What do you guys think I should do? Should I call her back? Is it rude to keep avoiding her?
Pentula77 Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 don't call her, take the new girl out...women instinctively know when you've finally let go.
BlueEyedSarah Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 Focus your mind and energy on this new girl you met recently. It could become a good thing.
Krying Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 don't call her, take the new girl out...women instinctively know when you've finally let go. So how can us poor schmucks deal with this then, when woman have a 6th sense in this regard? I can pretend to act like I don't give a crap, maybe even a little happy and so on, but you're telling me, my ex is going to know I still want her back?
Toolate Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Women are not any more magical than men. If you are not over it you are not over it. She might know she might not. It said over and over but think about YOU and what you want. If your EX is what you wanted, then of course there is someone out there that can give you what she did, and can do it without walking out. I think your 6th sense is telling you you can do better, who wants to stay with someone whos gonna bail out when times get tough, even worse bail out when you have a mortgage and a family.
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