miracgirl Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 Would you think there was something wrong with a girl if you found out that the girl you were dating who was 35 had only slept with one guy one time a really long time ago?
Krytie TV Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 I would think that the girl had difficulty being intimate with someone, yes. I would probably shy away seeing that I've already had enough experiences with women that had difficulty opening up to me and allowing me in their space.
Pentula77 Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 I wouldn't think there was something wrong with her. Some people take a while to find their groove
Lizzie60 Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 Any girl could say the same thing... you know... that's easy... 'I've only been with one guy and it's been a long time ago'... Maybe she's lying... If not, well I say she is shy or just not into sex at all... no libido...
Cobra_X30 Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 Would you think there was something wrong with a girl if you found out that the girl you were dating who was 35 had only slept with one guy one time a really long time ago? No. I'd have a lot of respect for that! Do you think a guy would rather choose a girl who cant even remember all the guys she has been with?
tanbark813 Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 I agree with KTV that it would make me wonder if she had intimacy issues. I'd also be concerned that she might later feel like she missed out on playing the field. I'd prefer to date a woman who had some experiences under her belt.
Author miracgirl Posted October 19, 2007 Author Posted October 19, 2007 would you guys stop dating her for this reason?
Timberlane Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 would you guys stop dating her for this reason? Well, if we had a nice, normal sex life and good intimacy, then no. Of course not. But if those things were very, very slow to develop and/or she was showing very little interest in them, yes I would most certainly stop dating her. Having dealt with this sort of person before, I can't say I enjoyed it.
Krytie TV Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 would you guys stop dating her for this reason? If I hadn't started yet, I probably wouldn't start. If we were already dating, I wouldn't break it off with her for it, but it would place me in a skeptical and perhaps guarded disposition... expecting to discover she's distant.
sweetbutcheeky Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 Could be true or she has been with more but doesn't want to share the number and details so she thought that was a safe route. Not thinking that it could have an opposite reaction/problem.
brothermartin Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 ANSWER: Yes. Unless she's unatracttive or fresh out of a convent, I cant really see much reason to do that other than choice. Question is why would SHE make a choice like that.
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