Lucky555 Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 So what would you do if you were going to potentially see a person you date because of the social setting your going to be at? The person basically took your heart and stepped on it a few times and then was sorry. He realized he did you wrong because he was hurt from a previous relationship? I felt in this situation that I was very blinded because I thought he was going to be a such a great person, and then i found out he was two timing me...flirting with other girls in front of me, but didnt like it when i did that to him. He was still talking with his ex on a weekly basis and she was begging him to get back with her. So down the road i realized he wasn't totally "into" seeing where our "relationship" went...which i then found 5 months later he wasnt looking for a relationship but told me before he would make a great boyfriend??? So I have not talked to him in a few months due to the fact of this situation and now i might see him again. I have dated other guys and such. But i still am really insulted by what he did..he should have been honest in the beginning...i realized i was being his therapist for a recent break up and i ditched the dude but still wanted to be his friend which he didn't even want that. SO, i guess i would have liked him to be a man and say hey im sorry but right now i my life i just want a friend and that would have been fine..but pursue me and such i feel so fooled...is that what this is fooled? I feel like i thought i bought a Prada bag but instead its a fake..and i got taken for because i think i should have waited to see what he was first but you dont really know someone unless you try to give it a chance. So how am i going to handle this, i just rather not see him to be honest but there is a chance.......what do i do i have to go to this thing too. I can't say i was in love, but i really had feelings and now like i said its just like i am insulted. When someone does you wrong its hard to forget and wish i could forgive..and i have tried to rationalize this but gosh i need some advise here.
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