Author Star Gazer Posted October 22, 2007 Author Posted October 22, 2007 Yup. AND put your dentures in. ?????
Author Star Gazer Posted October 22, 2007 Author Posted October 22, 2007 If he's tooting around you, I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be mortified if toned down your "immaculate" look. (you must be exhausted after dates ) Ah, but see...he did it unintentionally. He was unconscious, he woke himself up from his own toot!
Lostgurl Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Ah, but see...he did it unintentionally. He was unconscious, he woke himself up from his own toot! I do this all the time. I wake up trying to hold them in. I think that he'd find you sexy in some casual digs. He's obviously as into you as you are him from what you say. If he gets turned off from you wearing something toned down in comparison to what you normally wear, then it would be shallow of him right?
sb129 Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 ????? Your false teeth. Isn't as funny if I have to explain it!!!! Wonderboy farts in bed and holds my head under the covers . Your guy is still on his best behaviour- long may it last!!!
sb129 Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 WB is MOST offended. He says he has never done that, and that I do it to HIM. Whatever. He farts in bed, for sure. So do I. Sometimes. But it doesn't smell.
Lostgurl Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Your false teeth. Isn't as funny if I have to explain it!!!! Wonderboy farts in bed and holds my head under the covers . Your guy is still on his best behaviour- long may it last!!! I get the ol' dutch oven too If i accidentally let one out, he laughs and teases. I need to work on overcoming my shyness on the subject and start think about seeking revenge and dutch him right back.
sb129 Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 Yeah do it Lostgurl. I think its kinda funny.... sometimes we lie in bed, make up songs, and giggle like two little kids. i love it. So farts are cool by me.
Author Star Gazer Posted October 22, 2007 Author Posted October 22, 2007 Your false teeth. Isn't as funny if I have to explain it!!!! I STILL don't get it!! Who has dentures? Johan?
sb129 Posted October 22, 2007 Posted October 22, 2007 I STILL don't get it!! Who has dentures? Johan? OH COME ON SG!!! :lmao: He said you still have to bathe if you are going to let your standards "slip" a little. I meant you still have to wear your false teeth! (you can't let em float in a glass of water next to the bed just because you are getting comfortable;)) Geddit?
mental_traveller Posted October 29, 2007 Posted October 29, 2007 When in a new relationship, when is it okay to be more "comfortable" with your appearance? Is it ever okay? By this, I do NOT mean letting yourself go, being sloppy, and generally not caring, but rather, not putting as much superficial effort into impressing the other person. For example, when I first start dating a guy, I try very hard to make sure my outfits are perfect, my hair is perfect, my makeup is perfect, my nails and toes are perfectly and recently done, my car is perfectly washed, my apartment is spotless, etc. I know that in a way this is putting up a facade, but hey, aren't we all on our best behavior and appearance in the beginning? I just want to make a good impression... So after that first, second, third, fourth, fifth, et al., impression is made, is it okay to have him come over while I'm in loungey clothes instead of my cute trendy outfit? Or to leave a few dishes in the sink? Or to forego the full-blown eye makeup for some simple mascara? If so...when does this become acceptable? If you are putting on an act early on in the relationship, eventually he is going to find out the truth. There's no way you can permanently pretend to be Miss Clean Freak or Vogue cover model if that's not how you are normally. Why not just be yourself from day 1? I think most people see through these facades pretty quickly. If you put a lot of effort into your appearance in general e.g. if you won't go to the corner shop wearing scruffy clothes and no makeup, then that's fine. I just don't really agree with this idea of "making an impression" only to backslide on it within a few weeks. Someone who likes you regardless will not care, and someone who likes "effort" will feel tricked if you change your ways after a month or two. I would recommend just be yourself and don't go to *extreme* lengths on the first couple of dates. There's nothing wrong with smartening up, but don't spend like 2 hours in the bathroom trying to be "perfect", if that's not how you are normally. Dress at the beginning the same as how you would when you are "comfortable", 1-2 months into a relationship.
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