mental_traveller Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 im a 26 year old woman, who is self conscious about my breast. im 5ft 2inches and a size 4 (UK). so im very petite. my bra size is 32B which i feel uncomfortable with, everyone seems to have biggest breasts than me and i notice other womens boobs a lot. i love natural looking breasts but im so tempted to have a breast augmentation. My boyfriend apparently likes my boobs and is a "boob man ". But his ex was a DD cup so it must be so weird for him now. i do not feel feminine. So guys. Does size really matter? if you had the choice would bigger boobs win every time? Mallary x x Well, as a confirmed big boob fan I can answer this one. If I had the choice of designing a woman from scratch, she'd have big boobs. If i could magically alter boob size, then I would make it bigger. However, if I meet a woman and she exudes hotness, I would definitely *not* be put off if she had small boobs. Probably the hottest woman I ever slept with had a small chest, and it wasn't an issue at all, in fact it suited her. She was *extremely* feminine and that just proves you don't need to be busty to be hot. So first of all, I would say don't be paranoid about yourself. Just like most guys wish their dick was a bit bigger, women have the same issue with chest size. But the reality in most cases is it's not that big a deal. 90% of the time the insecurity is far greater than what our partner thinks about it. As for getting a boob job, IMO that should be done only if you want to do it for your own sake. Would you want a boob job if you were single, or if you were married and your husband liked small boobs? You should not get plastic surgery just to please a man - who might not be around in a year's time anyway. So to sum up, my advice would be to not worry about it. Just be yourself and if this guy doesn't like it then there are plenty of others who will!
plainoldjared Posted October 24, 2007 Posted October 24, 2007 im a 26 year old woman, who is self conscious about my breast. im 5ft 2inches and a size 4 (UK). so im very petite. my bra size is 32B which i feel uncomfortable with, everyone seems to have biggest breasts than me and i notice other womens boobs a lot. i love natural looking breasts but im so tempted to have a breast augmentation. My boyfriend apparently likes my boobs and is a "boob man ". But his ex was a DD cup so it must be so weird for him now. i do not feel feminine. So guys. Does size really matter? if you had the choice would bigger boobs win every time? Mallary x x I have no preference in breast size, however, I do think proportion is important. I dont find women attractive when they look like they would be falling over if it wasnt for a strong back. However, for some reason small breast only look bad to me if the woman is not feminine, in that case small breast can make a woman even more guyish and less attractive. So its all about how you carry yourself, be proud and know that youre a hot piece of goodness and your guy will definitely exude the same opinion of you. Oh and also, that tank top commando look is SOOOOO unbelievably hot... I dont know that a large breasted woman could pull it off or be comfortable in public...
Amiss Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Men DO love big boobs (I'm not talking about Jordan's horrid ballons!)but us women forget that most men love boobs of all sizes. My boyfriend is a leg man but likes my breast size. I'm on a diet and joke about him leaving me if I become an AA cup but I realise that men love ALL the female body. The legs,back,feet and other parts I wont mention His ex might have wag a jams but he's with you now so must fancy your size
Deanster Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Hi Mallary! So, like Mental_Traveller, I'm a guy who LOVES big boobs. Just love 'em. Fun to look at, fun to play with, etc. However, while it's attractive to look at, and gets lots of attention, boobs aren't even in the top 10 for things I choose for when looking for someone to spend time with, or for women I remember as incredibly attractive, or having been wonderful to be with. The women I think of as being 'special' all had great attitudes, good sense of humour, really great eyes, an attractive laugh, etc. I also agree with the posters above who note that perky and braless is absolutely competitive with 'big' for getting attention, and looking nice. Long story short, big boobs DO get some extra attention, but there's lots of features that get the same amount of attention, and perhaps in more pleasant ways for the recipient - nice hair, nice clothes, making the most of what you DO have, going braless, showing a little leg, just smiling a lot, dancing to the music, showing a zest for life, enthusiasm for physical contact, etc. Even for someone like me, who's a big fan of big knockers, there's 1000 other ways to get my attention, and most of them are more likely to keep it, as well.
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