LovelyLovely2 Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 Alrighty, I've posted about what guys really mean when they are acting the way they do.. and here is one that I just need a little help on. There is a handsome gentlemen in one of my psych classes (sophmore in college) and he and I have known eachother for a couple years now but just kinda have always said, "hey" and walked on. This year he got my phone number and texts me a lot. He always tells me how cute I am and he wants to take me to a movie on saturday. I told him yes, but while we're in class he doesn't take much of attention to me.. he does sometimes but usually he's texting girls on his cellular. lol. Is he just wanting to play..? Or is he afraid of rejection.. hmmm guys, anybody out there do this? Do you think he's asking other girls out as well..lol
JosieMcCoy Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 OMG! Player totally! Either that or he is embarrassed to show others he knows you!!! Cheers!
Author LovelyLovely2 Posted October 18, 2007 Author Posted October 18, 2007 Im just not sure how to act on Saturday.. What if he tries to snuggle or something.. lol I know that sounds silly but ya know what im saying
soulseeker Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 Just dont do anything you'd regret until you know where you stand.
Author LovelyLovely2 Posted October 18, 2007 Author Posted October 18, 2007 Okay thanks guys. I just hope he's not a player, I don't know much in this category
Pyro Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 Okay thanks guys. I just hope he's not a player, I don't know much in this category Just remember that actions speak louder than words. You may want to reconsider going to the movies with him on Saturday. If he is texting other girls in front of you, then why even give him a chance?
Saxis Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 How do you know he's texting other girls? Also, why is he supposed to be exclusive with you even BEFORE your first date? You're not being forced to do anything with him. If you want to make assumptions about him before you even get to know him, that's fine. It wouldn't really be his loss at that point. Sounds like a lot of needless worrying to me....
Author LovelyLovely2 Posted October 18, 2007 Author Posted October 18, 2007 Okay I wasn't trying to drag him down before I get to know him. I know he's texting other girls because he sits right in front of me and has his cell on his side, I just happened to see, I wasn't trying to overlook his shoulder. It probably is needless worrying thanks..but I just wanted to get others opinions, maybe I like him a little and don't want to get shot down if I get my hopes up. Also, I don't expect him to be exclusive with me, lol. Some guys just like to play, as with girls too. So I just wanted to ask.
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