bannanacakes Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 Ok so i have a bit of a problem! I have been with my boyfriend now fiancé for almost 5 years. While we were in high school we were very strong and in love. While we were dating I always had a crush on one of my friends, let’s call him Stan. Recently I found out that Stan felt the same way as I did back in high school. When we talked about this I started to get the feelings that I had buried back then. I always felt something for him. Back 3 years ago I buried my feelings for him because I knew that I was with my boyfriend. These feelings would come up whenever I saw Stan. Secretly I have always liked him and wondered what if him and I would have dated. I am stuck between a wall and a sword. I don’t know what to do. I mean I love my fiancé but we have problems too. I am happy with him but not 100% happy. Now that Stan told me that he has always felt the same way for me I feel like there might be something there. That maybe this is the sign that I have been asking god for. I am a mess with my feelings right now. I don’t want anyone to get hurt but at the same time I feel like I should think about my feelings too. Is it time to let go of my 5 yr relationship or should I stay and maybe someday regret this decision? I am only 18 and have been with my fiancé for 5 years. Please any advice will help!
tomwiz Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 You're 18, if your thinking about goign with another guy, you're not all that happy. However you know what they say....Grass is always greener
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