sapphire0903 Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 I have not been here in a while,....... MM has been on my mind for the past few days,.....alot....and I wanted to log on to remind myself NC is the right thing to do. Have not had ANY contact since March of this year, and I still think about him, and miss what we had. I have dated others, but I don't seem to be able to capture the same feelings that I had with MM. The thoughts and feelings are just under the surface, and I can't seem to let go of them. I agree that NC is the right thing to do when your faced with this kind of a relationship, and want the pain to end..........and it has, I don't cry daily over him and the loss, ........but I still do miss him. Any others out there? I could use some inspiration, and shared stories.
PoshPrincess Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 I have not been here in a while,....... MM has been on my mind for the past few days,.....alot....and I wanted to log on to remind myself NC is the right thing to do. Have not had ANY contact since March of this year, and I still think about him, and miss what we had. I have dated others, but I don't seem to be able to capture the same feelings that I had with MM. The thoughts and feelings are just under the surface, and I can't seem to let go of them. I agree that NC is the right thing to do when your faced with this kind of a relationship, and want the pain to end..........and it has, I don't cry daily over him and the loss, ........but I still do miss him. Any others out there? I could use some inspiration, and shared stories. You're not alone Sapphire! My R with MM ended even longer ago than yours and I still have feelings for him. I haven't been very good with NC but luckily he ignores me!!!!! I do believe that it gets easier though. I haven't shed any tears over mine in a long time but, like you, I do miss him. Hang in there! You'er doing great! Don't be tempted to cave in at anytime. Just come here and we will talk you out of it! x
child_of_isis Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 Maybe you "can't capture the same feelings" because you are afraid of being hurt...again. It happens, you know. People put up walls to protect themselves. It may have nothing to do with the MM and your R beyond that.
Author sapphire0903 Posted October 18, 2007 Author Posted October 18, 2007 Thank you PP and child, Iam not going to contact him. I cant even say that I want to,.......took so long for me to go NC, I don't want to repeat it. Besides, I told him to call me if his marital status ever changed, and he has not so........ The emotional wall is up, this I know, I am not opposed to knocking it down. MM treated me so well, I won't settle for less. I guess once the "bar has risen", there is no going back, I don't ever want to settle.
GreenEyedLady Posted October 19, 2007 Posted October 19, 2007 Hi Saph! I'm glad to see you posting again! It's good that you're able to be so strong!
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