MystifiedByMen Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 This is a blog I wrote a few months back. My friends loved it so I thought I'd share it with you guys! So, since I'm in a playful mood, I will let all my dear friends in on a FEW secrets. As some of you know, I like to study body language. Working in a bar, or when I'm out, I have lots of fun trying to read people and subconsciously manipulate guys to like me more than normal if I like them. Then I try to read them to see if they are interested or not. Once I know, I become bolder and go after whom I want. Before I start here is a random one for all you bartenders: ****When someone buys a drink and they have their money on the bar, go ring them up. When you come back, do NOT just throw their change on the bar. Be sure to hold the money out in front of you until the place their hand out to accept it. Then make EYE CONTACT and touch their hand gently. Do this in a non-suspicious way. This will increase your tips by 20%. You see, the simple act of just touching someone makes it PERSONAL and they feel closer to you and compelled to be nicer to you by giving you more in tips. You just created a bond w/that person**** Easy things for men & woman to do to get the one you're flirting w/to like you: Mirroring: The concept of mirroring is simple. We as human beings tend to like people that are similar to ourselves. So, if your target is sipping a drink, sip yours. If they touch your arm, touch theirs. If they touch their hair, do the same. Now a word of caution: Wait approximately 20-30 seconds to mirror them and be subtle. If you are too obvious they will catch on or you may creep them out. (huh, I like that word creepy. CREEeePY) lol, anyways! Eyes: When you're talking to your "target" look into their eyes. Subconsciously, the person's eyes will dilate if they are attracted to you. Hence, the romantic dinner in the dark. When it's darker, your pupils dilate fooling the person into thinking you like them whether you do or not and vice versa. If you are talking to a person and the room in bright, notice their eyes. If the black part of their eyes are BIG, this is a good indicator they are attracted to you. Interesting fact: This is something biological that babies do to get the parents to bond with them, Also, notice those cute teddy bears you buy? Those BIG dilated eyes they have. You instantly think, "Oh my, this little stuffed animal is so cute!" Your last treat of knowledge I bestow onto you tonight is: Let's say you're on a date. You are standing or sitting near each other. Watch were the person's feet are pointing. If they are into you, they will be pointing to you. If they are tolerating you and pointing to the hottie in the corner, that's not a good sign. Start looking for a new date. If they are pointing to the door, they may just want to high tail it out of there as far away as possible from you. Ok, I'm generous to the men tonight: Boys, watch for wrist flashing. If she is flashing her wrists at you while talking or sitting at a table, she is into you. She's "opening up to you" so to speak. This is a good sign. If she crosses her arms while talking to you, she may not trust you or what your saying. Ladies, here's a good one for you: Crotch thrusting. Look at his stance. If he is facing you with hands in pockets or hanging from his belt and tilting his package forward, he's trying to get you to notice his prize possession and HIM! Guys do this all the time and don't realize they are even doing it. This is a good sign. He's saying I'm manly and have LOTS to offer you.
NocturnalRaids Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 I don't believe in body language. I could doubt the senses, cause they can be decieved. People could put up a facade, or just be a tease or really friendly for no reason. I agree that stuff is subconciouss. It's evolutionary psychology, ya might be interested in that. P.S. - What is wrist flashing, don't know what you mean
Author MystifiedByMen Posted October 18, 2007 Author Posted October 18, 2007 I don't believe in body language. I could doubt the senses, cause they can be decieved. People could put up a facade, or just be a tease or really friendly for no reason. I agree that stuff is subconciouss. It's evolutionary psychology, ya might be interested in that. P.S. - What is wrist flashing, don't know what you mean Wrist flashing is when a woman exposes the inside of her wriste to you not knowing she's doing it. It's a proven fact that if she does this, she's comfortable with you and interested in you. True, body language is not a science and it can be read differently, but it is a fun guidline to use on a date or whatnot. It's worked for me at times. I'm just goofy like that. Also, the part I wrote about the "eyes" is a fact too. It's proven and something you cannot control. It’s a dead giveaway to determine if the person in interested.
Pentula77 Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 wasn't aware of the wrist action will have to check it out, cheers
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