ashleigh422 Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 this is a sort of general question that is extrememly important. can you guys tell me at what point in a relationship do you know its time to end it? What are the things that happen that I should end it over> Ive been with him for 3 almost 4 years and he really hurts my feelingseveryday by distrust, he accuses me of cheating AT WORK.. with my boss or with his kids or with clients ore someone i met in that town.. IM A LEGAL SECRETARY.. I dont get it.. it feels like emotionally its over.. anyone tell me what are the things you'd END it over.. our relationship looks great on paper with money and things and without him.. im not going to lie.. things will be tight.. is it worth struggling??
alwayshurt Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 he sounds like a very insecure person. He probably loves you and he tries to hit on you to cope with some problems he has and probably to see you reactions. If you love this guy, try to talk to him and explain that there is nothing to worry about. In the other case, I would suggest to walk away. If he's not worth there is not reason to compromise you mental stability. You don't need that.
alwayshurt Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 ....also if you think he's worth you may suggest to go see a therapist. This guy has definetely issues that need to be adressed by a professinal. well...do it even if you decide to leave him. He needs help, anyway.
Pentula77 Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 the fact that you're asking the question indicates it is time for you...the only thing holding you back is the fear of the unknown...
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