DKS107 Posted October 17, 2007 Posted October 17, 2007 i am confused on what is going on with my boyfriend. dating now for almost 2 months. we get along great (he even says so himself). we usually hang out everyday and try to do fun things and keep busy instead of just being bored. the other day i was playing around with his blackberry and discovered text messages to someone else. i confronted him and he said nothing happened and he would never do anything. i have the trust issue now if he would ever do something behind my back. reason being he said he usually was only with a person 2 times and then that was it, never talked to that person. we have not for about a month yet are actually together. i don't know if he likes that thrill of finding someone else for 2 times and keeps doing over (he said he was like that in the past). in addition his friends seem to be quite flirtatious from what i have gathered and seen on occassion so that makes me wonder if there is temptation to cheat. he says he is depressed. he does have a lot of bills to pay and on his mind. he always said i am doing nothing wrong (and i know i am not) but i want to know what i can or should be doing? something to draw that attention back to me, what we had, anything.... ps. dunno if this helps out any but last week i said "i love you" to him. i really feel that way. at first he said "you too" then later in a text message he repied that it will take sometime to say that back. reason being he may have said that before and was hurt. i just wish he knew i am here for the long haul and i would never hurt him cause he's "it"
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