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Is this guy I work with more likely to like me or see me as a friend?


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He asked me a few years ago if I liked him

. . . but I laughed at him and he hasn't asked me that since.

 

He calls me at work sometimes on what seems like a pretext or no reason at all, and has told me at least once that he had asked me a question he could have easily found out the answer to himself

. . . but he doesn't call me every time he knows I'm working

 

He asked a buch of coworkers to a party he was throwing because his parents were going to be in town

. . . I texted to cancel at the last minute

. . . He brought his family and their friends to see the office the next day and glared at me the whole time he was talking to the district manager

 

He called once and flirted with me after I found out he was seeing someone (he didn't know that I knew)

. . . when I asked him how things were with the new girlfriend, he got mad and said that she wasn't his girlfriend and see came to see him, not the other way around (?!)

. . . when I asked what he liked about her since he was so negative, he said she was "nice" and "pretty" but then he still had complaints about her (he broke up with her later)

 

He seems to really care about what I think about him

 

We rarely hang out

. . . but he asks others to go with us

. . . he won't go if there's something else to do

. . . I have to ask him

. . . if he doesn't go, he asks how things went

 

Sometimes when we are hanging out he doesn things that might be flirting

. . . once we were sitting on the ground and I felt his hand slowly covering mine, but I moved it back because I thought he just wasn't paying attention

. . . the last time we hung out he said something that might have been flirting, and looked in my eyes for a long time and smiled. Finally I got embarrassed and looked down, then he jumped up and stretched with a big smile on his face.

 

He really seems to love helping me with things.

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I forgot to add that until last week he thought that my religion didn't allow me to date.

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Sorry, one more thing. He's not dating anyone right now as far as I know but he didn't say anything besides offer advice on handling the situtation w/my pastor when he found out I had no problem dating.

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