xmylastresortx Posted October 16, 2007 Posted October 16, 2007 Me and my girlfriend have only been together for like a month and a week or something... and ON HER REQUEST i took her virginity and i feel bad because she like is like completely attached... I regret what i did though because she's really strange... lots of things i can point out that i don't like but i don't want to because its harsh... so i need to break up with her... and i don't know what to say. If i'm honest i'll be a jerk with standards... but if i lie i don't know what to say haha and lieing is the way to go in this situation... what do i do?
Ocean-Blue Posted October 16, 2007 Posted October 16, 2007 Me and my girlfriend have only been together for like a month and a week or something... and ON HER REQUEST i took her virginity and i feel bad because she like is like completely attached... I regret what i did though because she's really strange... lots of things i can point out that i don't like but i don't want to because its harsh... so i need to break up with her... and i don't know what to say. If i'm honest i'll be a jerk with standards... but if i lie i don't know what to say haha and lieing is the way to go in this situation... what do i do? You're being quite vague (so much so that it's hard to provide you with any feedback). If you don't want to be with her, say so. The more you two have sex, the more likely she is to become more attached. So nip it in the bud now. You don't have to be brutally honest (unless she requests it)...just tell her that it's not working out...that you need space and aren't ready for a commitment. Whatever you do, end it now. No point in dragging a relationship on if you don't want to be in it. You are not doing her any favours.
tomwiz Posted October 17, 2007 Posted October 17, 2007 I would just "nip it in the butt now" as suggested. No point in dragging this girl threw the mud, maybe you shoulda figured out if she was "strange" before deflowering her haha.
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