timmytoo23 Posted October 16, 2007 Posted October 16, 2007 im pretty insecure... i have been with my girfriend for four years, but i cant help but think that she is cheating on me, if so shes hiding it very well.... i think this cuz her best friend, and roommate at school gets around, and when my gf isnt with me shes with this girl, and i feel like she may bring another guy along to hangout with my gf when im not around.... does this sound like something that girls would normally do?
jtalia Posted October 16, 2007 Posted October 16, 2007 Has she done anything to lead you to believe she is cheating or has she cheated before? Have you discussed your concerns with her? Unless she has give you a reason to not trust her, you should then. At least talk to her.....
Krytie TV Posted October 16, 2007 Posted October 16, 2007 I'm guessing that there's no particular reason for you to not trust her except that you can't watch over her. I was like that many years ago, in another lifetime. The best advice I could give you, apart from working on the roots of your jealousy, is to keep it to yourself. Don't talk about this with your girlfriend if she has given you no cause to. It's an incredibly unattractive quality and the more you can hide it from the daylight the better off you'll be. If you're like me, the behavior (surpressing the jealousy) will create the belief (that people are trustable). Good luck. Distract yourself from those thoughts.
whichwayisup Posted October 16, 2007 Posted October 16, 2007 If you can't trust her after 4 years, then there's something really wrong here. I agree with the others, you need to let go of his jealously/insecurity - Try to understand WHY you think she would cheat on you. Does she DO anything while you two are together that makes you feel like she's cheating on you? Did a previous girlfriend cheat on you? Or is this something from childhood? Parents cheated on eachother?
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