amaysngrace Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 Sacrifice is part of love, and giving some power is not necessarily a bad thing. No it's definitely not a bad thing. Choosing to love someone as much as you love yourself takes courage. And putting the person you love above yourself sometimes is a sign of strength, not weakness. Link to post Share on other sites
Author marsbars Posted October 16, 2007 Author Share Posted October 16, 2007 I am just realistic about the type of woman you are dealing with. I give my love wholeheartedly to a woman that deserves but if she ever pulled the stuff your wife is pulling she would be out the door. She has problems I agree, but looking past someone's faults is essential in love or you will never find anyone. If she is willing to work as hard as i can then what she has done is in the past. What she has done is explode, years of pent up issues. Kinda like hitting me upside the head with a 2x4. She deserves every bit of my love, no matter what she has done. If I had of done it all along I wouldn't be her debating the issue. Link to post Share on other sites
Author marsbars Posted October 16, 2007 Author Share Posted October 16, 2007 That is correct. You are cool. Stick around LS. I will, so much to learn, and maybe teach. who knows. However things work out for me I will check back often for insight and advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 She has problems I agree, but looking past someone's faults is essential in love or you will never find anyone. If she is willing to work as hard as i can then what she has done is in the past. What she has done is explode, years of pent up issues. Kinda like hitting me upside the head with a 2x4. She deserves every bit of my love, no matter what she has done. If I had of done it all along I wouldn't be her debating the issue. Just keep your ears and eyes open towards her behavior. If she shows any indication that she is out to get you, then end it, simple as that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author marsbars Posted October 16, 2007 Author Share Posted October 16, 2007 Just keep your ears and eyes open towards her behavior. If she shows any indication that she is out to get you, then end it, simple as that. Trust me the paranoia is pulsing. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 Trust me the paranoia is pulsing. Its going to. No one said that it would easy. Hopefully those feelings go away. Link to post Share on other sites
Author marsbars Posted October 16, 2007 Author Share Posted October 16, 2007 Just keep your ears and eyes open towards her behavior. If she shows any indication that she is out to get you, then end it, simple as that. Its going to. No one said that it would easy. Hopefully those feelings go away. I am working on it, cause all that does is make me negative and defensive. plus it pumps up the anxiety. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 I am working on it, cause all that does is make me negative and defensive. plus it pumps up the anxiety. Take Woggles advice and you will continue to feel that way, IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
Author marsbars Posted October 16, 2007 Author Share Posted October 16, 2007 I am following my heart for the most part. And Woggle's advice is just that advice it is like and opinion.And you know what they say about opinions. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 I am following my heart for the most part. And Woggle's advice is just that advice it is like and opinion.And you know what they say about opinions. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Link to post Share on other sites
Author marsbars Posted October 16, 2007 Author Share Posted October 16, 2007 I certainly hope I do, cause I am going to need it to get me through this. Gonna have to put my OCD in full swing, a good use for the damn thing. Link to post Share on other sites
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