Don't wanna be the only one putting in work for us!

[gonetildecember]

That's so great! Good to hear you guys had an awesome weekend. Am sooooo jealous, can't wait to have fun weekends with my boyfriend. Sometimes boys need to be reminded to put a little effort in. Yay!

 

 

Thanks again for the advice,

I don't know if it was that day where I sorta changed my attitude and he realised and commented on it... that made him remember that it does take a little effort.. or if he just came to it on his own, but it definetely paid off.

 

Our next meeting most likely won;t be for a couple weeks, but I'm not going to bring it up at all and see if he will take some initiative in planning/coordinating it, instead of him waiting for me to make a suggestion.

 

The whole effort thing is important to me. I would like him to be more involved instead of sitting back and waiting for me, so I guess I have to take a step back because he is used to me doing everything... so I guess we'll see if he picks up the slack.

[love4ever]

Awww I'm so happy for you. Things definitely seem be going up. Hopefully things will continue that way.