xxHopelessRomanticxx Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 i need tips on getting over a girl ive been liking for a long time because ive realized that we could NEVER be (dont really feel like explaining at the time) or at least tell me how to cope preferably someone whos been through htis before.
Darkzen Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 i need tips on getting over a girl ive been liking for a long time because ive realized that we could NEVER be (dont really feel like explaining at the time) or at least tell me how to cope preferably someone whos been through htis before. Turn your focus elsewhere. Pick up a new hobby, go to the gym, start hanging out with friends more, etc... Look to get the willie wet, it'll help with the physical withdraw. Maintain "no contact", keep her out of your head. Eventually things will sting less and less, you'll think about her less and less. It takes time.
Lunar Sonata Posted October 15, 2007 Posted October 15, 2007 What works for me is what I call the 'drowning' method. Think of her as much as you can, then think of her some more. While you're at it, separate what you in fact FOR CERTAIN know about her and what you don't know about her. Then keep thinking about her. You'll eventually get sick of thinking about something you can't do anything about. Works for me. This is to be used if you can't do something about it. Not if you can and are just too scared to do so.
halfarock Posted October 15, 2007 Posted October 15, 2007 Find another girl with whom to direct your amorous attention.
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