KATANYA Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 Many of the posts have been from the OW who have decided to end the A or who have started NC...Interesting what we see as our "markers" for getting over the MM - feel free to add! You know you are getting over him when......... 1) You leave your house to go out with friends without worrying you are going to miss one of those random calls (and your first stop upon returning home is not the answering machine!)...ditto for text messages! 2) You stop wondering what he and his wife are doing while you are sitting alone waiting to hear from him; You stop questionning whether he told you the truth about his M to begin with (it really doesn't matter!) 3) You no longer have the urge to drive randomly past his favorite bar at his "usual" time just to see if his vehicle is there; (or for some, his house/office, etc.) 4) You stop dialing his number just to see if he has his phone on - then hang up if he does (hoping he may call back and you can say you pushed his # by accident); 5) You turn your cell phone off without thinking "what if he calls" 6) You don't have to wait to hear his plans before you make your own 7) You stop wondering "why" he doesn't call just to say hi - after all "how busy can he be?" 8) You stop wondering "when" the next time will be........ 9) You actually start to look at other men (women) with curiosity and interest ( no doubt secretly hoping they aren't married!) 10) You stop reading the library of books that you've collected on "being the OW(OM)", "Why Men Cheat", "Relationships", etc. etc. etc. and decide you really know enough. 11) You realize how much LoveShack has helped you keep your sanity during the whole ordeal! 12) For many, you attest you will never be the OW/OM again, but we all know better than to never say never! These are some of the recurring comments I've read and thought I'd start making note of them!!....... Happy weekend everyone!
Bobby NoBrains Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 LOL that's a good start KATANYA Nice list ... I'll be reading this thread on and off. Just my two bits .. Bobby
ICallsEmAsISeesEm Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 You realize that all along you really DID have a life of your OWN but you were neglecting it in order to accommodate HIS.
lost4ever Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 Thinking about him makes you want to puke, and for the life of you can't remember why you thought his old out of shape ass was hot---
fidela666 Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 You hit the spot. And I must admit I like knowing that most of your list is so accurate, I am 85% over him. NC and reading other peoples stories are helping not to give in ever again. Even though lack of sex is what is the only reason why I really miss him, I am working on expanding my rolodex with ONLY SINGLE GUYS
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