zoe1983 Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 so my boyfriend and i are in a good place in our relationship. We barely ever fight and even though we often have different interests, i feel like deep down we are very very similar. anyways, the problem i guess is our schedules. I work 745-415 during the week and he goes to school atleast three or four days a week from 12-6 or 7. On the weekend he delivers pizzas and works friday and saturday nights from 5pm to 2 in the morning. Sunday is our one day off together but often he has to go to school that day too. as much as we love each other i feel like we are losing the romance a bit. We still say sweet things to each other all the time and stuff but because of our schedules real dates are pretty much not an option. I miss getting dressed up and going out together. As far as our sex life goes, its still great but its hard to find the time to be intimate with each other. Usually one of us is asleep or tired or something..... Also because i have to get up early for work i have to go to bed pretty early but he doesnt and so after i go to sleep he will often go and hang out with his friends till 3 or 4 in the morning. I feel like his friends get more quality time with him, and on top of that his friends often show up when i am still awake so even our weekday evenings have little chance for romance. I know it bothers him a bit too but i think he just feels like nothing can be done because or our schedules. So i was hoping maybe some of you could give me some ideas? I would really appreciate any suggestions! Thanks!
Lizzie60 Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 talk about schedule conflicts.. You should sit down and schedule a date on weeknights... tell him that you have nothing against his friends but he needs to tell them that he needs to be with you more often... his friends should come second...
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