miracgirl Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 If a guy is dating someone for over a year, and say they spend the whole weekend together and a couple nights during the week...do you think there is still a chance he is seeing her primarily for sex and fun and is considering the girl as just a "good for now" girl? or do you think that if the girl makes it past a year, she's more than just "good for now" and he's more serious about her?
Kamille Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 I have known guys who were capable of staying with a good for now girl for over a year. To me it all depends what the girl in question is willing to settle for. The relationship in question doesn't sound very thrilling and the guy in question doesn't seem to display much fowardness. Is this relationship one that the girl finds satisfying? Thrilling? Comforting?
Kerewin Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 How much time you spend alone together doesn't tell the tale. Have you met his friends? His family? Do vacation plans include you (at least sometimes, he should still have weekends with pals, etc.). If not, you may indeed be a "good for now girl". And that sucks
wizer Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 1 year isn't a magic number. That's how long it takes for the earth to revolve around the sun, but it doesn't cement the feelings a guy has for his girl. However, I would say the odds of being a "good for now" girl decrease in inverse proportion to the length of the relationship.
norajane Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 Are you afraid to ask him what your relationship means to him? If you are afraid to talk to him about this, then your gut instinct is telling you something.
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