Author Ponzoli Posted October 16, 2007 Author Posted October 16, 2007 Thanks for the harsh truth. I mean that. You really kinda called me out with your quote below, and I suppose-if I am to honest-there is a measure of truth in what you have said. I appreciate your and everyone else's honest responses to my post. As I have said before, there is no point to asking for people's opinions if they aren't going to be honest with you. Your quote below really hit me right between the eyes, but at this point, I would suppose that is exactly what I needed. Thanks again. What is it going to take for you to just talk to her? Or are you just going to keep posting on the internet about it until you can get enough people tell you she's not interested so that you can feel justified in not talking to her?
Ocean-Blue Posted October 16, 2007 Posted October 16, 2007 It is just that I have no self confidence man, you are right, I hear what you are saying. I was curious, do you have any opinion as to whether or not this girl was interested in me or not? If you don't have any confidence in yourself...well she's bound to pick up on that. It's in the way you stand. The way you speak. The way you make eye contact. Don't be apologetic! Simply put, if you don't think you're good enough, neither will she.
Author Ponzoli Posted October 17, 2007 Author Posted October 17, 2007 I really appreciate your opinion. Can you please provide me with your honest opinion was to whether or not this girl is interested in me, given the factual scenario that I laid out in my Original Post in this thread? You were a really big help in my other thread, and I would appreciate your input in this thread as well. If there is anyway that you could respond that A-u think she is NOT necessarily interested B-You think that she is interested or C-you cannot judge given the limited information given, I would really appreciate it. I hope to read your response soon. Thanks!
jcster Posted October 17, 2007 Posted October 17, 2007 women have a poorly developed sense of humor, They laugh at any lame shyte . Get her giggling - it is golden Why not...it works for you, doesn't it? I mean....laughing at lame "shyte..."
Author Ponzoli Posted October 17, 2007 Author Posted October 17, 2007 pretty snappy comeback JCLester I gotta give you that:bunny:
Cobra_X30 Posted October 17, 2007 Posted October 17, 2007 Ponz, Why do you care so much if this girl likes you? If you are interested in her... thats all that matters at this point! Listen, it feels like maybe your building yourself up to make a move. If you only take action, because you believe she has an interest in you, that puts you in a weak position! Thats not the place to be friend.
Author Ponzoli Posted October 17, 2007 Author Posted October 17, 2007 Dude, thanks for the advice and input. I agree with you that I definitely don't want to act from a position of weakness. I just have built this girl up in my mind too much I guess. I also don't want things to be awkward between us in the German class for the rest of the year. I really do wish OCEAN BLUE would read this thread, and weigh in on whether or not this girl is interested. Thanks all.
Cobra_X30 Posted October 17, 2007 Posted October 17, 2007 Dude, thanks for the advice and input. I agree with you that I definitely don't want to act from a position of weakness. I just have built this girl up in my mind too much I guess. I also don't want things to be awkward between us in the German class for the rest of the year. I really do wish OCEAN BLUE would read this thread, and weigh in on whether or not this girl is interested. Thanks all. LOL... Ocean is a smart cookie! Listen Ponz, Dont build this girl up in your head... turning her into a fantasy is just going to intimidate you, and ruin her chances of getting to know you in the end. So here is what you do. Go one step at a time. When she looks at you, make direct eye contact... make sure she knows your looking! Then look away for split second... then look back at her and smile. Do that and you have just non-verbally told her that you are interested! Next chance you get. Sit next to her. YOU make that move. Then talk to her. Doesnt matter about what. Tell her... "the class looks better from right here", strike up a conversation....
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