omit Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 have met this girl from the internet whom i like. We met and sat in her house and talked for ages this was on the friday. She did sit kind of distant from me but i was fine with this meeting some one from the net is daunting so i just relaxed and gave her plenty of room. She was going out to a club and I was out with my friends so i called in to see her. I found that it was hard to talk and that her friend was draging her around, they went out for a smoke and when they came back they went straight for the bathroom. I dont know if she saw me. After the bathroom her firend brought her to these other guys, I was not totaly bothered because thats kind of how girls get on in clubs. My friend and I walked round the club and apairently passed her and she didnt say any thing. I didnt see her eyther it was quite busy. So we were going some were else and i went over to her and said hey we are going to go im off uni on monday and tuesday. She said o i work monday and tuesday but may be we could meet up after on tuesday, then she said well text me later. So on the monday i text her about tuesday asking her if she would like to go out some were. She said she was home sick from work and couldnt do tuesday she just said in her text another night. my first question is is she interested? I know this could be hard because its hard to tell, and only metting once. Second question is i have text her about every other day to see how she is getting on. i would not text a lot I would wait for a reply more often than not this would take a wile and not be instant. I text her on the friday to as how she is feeling and got no reply. Do you think this is too much? Finaly when she said "another night" is that looking for me to sugest or is it saying no with out being mean. Do you think she is trying to drop hints that she is not interested by not replying to my message? your thoughts and opinons are greatly apreciated omit
Author omit Posted October 14, 2007 Author Posted October 14, 2007 Sorry for double posting i had a virus on my computer that was cuasing errors in my internet.
birdie Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 well some people are rubbish when it comes to replying and all that but I think you've shown her enough interest now. it's not whether you texted her more often but about how responsive she is. even if she likes you, you would probably want someone who was a bit more outgoing and less reserved anyway
Author omit Posted October 14, 2007 Author Posted October 14, 2007 hey birdie I think your right, I have stoped contact now. I am going to leave it for a few days then im going to just call her and ask her out if she says no then its time to move on. responsiveness is right and when i think of it on a scale of 1-10 right now its not even on the scale. may be shes waiting for me to make a move, which i will next week. I might just be asking for a serrious rejection but id rather try than to wait around.
Author omit Posted October 14, 2007 Author Posted October 14, 2007 I realy need to work on making my post more interesting. LOL, i have a further question is me calling her a bad idea? is it somthing i should do or leave to see if she contacts me? Im trying not to think about it much but i do find her personality very atractive.
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