Pyro Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 Taking a break from all these "women are evil" threads, I just wanted to say how I love women. Sure some women are self-centered, immature, and will cheat, but if you want to live a healthy life, don't waste your time and energy on those women. Concentrate on what makes you happy. I do believe that you should be able to make yourself happy before you engage in a relationship, but when you do meet the right girl, treat her how you would want to be treated and if she abuses that and breaks your heart, then shame on her and it is her loss. I have been hurt and I have been cheated on in the past. I have been a victim of emotional and physical abuse from ex GF's but I still stand here just as optimistic as I have been before. Women are not the same. They are all unique in their own ways. Hope this thread was written out clear enough for all of you to understand.
Mylife Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 Sure some women are self-centered, immature, and will cheat In question to that phrase...especially the immature part. U being a guy, what if a girl is immature for her age, as in at times goes with what she wants rather what she should be doing. Mebbe doesnt make practical decisions about some small stuff and all...as in her personality is like a cute little kid in a way, such as easily panicy, easily freaked out. Would it totally turn a guy away from her...always??
burning 4 revenge Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 Women are cool when they're your mom. Otherwise look out
Author Pyro Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 Sure some women are self-centered, immature, and will cheat In question to that phrase...especially the immature part. U being a guy, what if a girl is immature for her age, as in at times goes with what she wants rather what she should be doing. Mebbe doesnt make practical decisions about some small stuff and all...as in her personality is like a cute little kid in a way, such as easily panicy, easily freaked out. Would it totally turn a guy away from her...always?? I can only speak for myself ut immaturity is a turn-off for me. A woman showing any sign of it will not cut it. I won't associate myself with immaturity. I am having a hard time understanding what you are saying.
burning 4 revenge Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 You're young and good looking and women will appreciate your respect and admiration of them, because you have something to offer. Wait until you get older and there's nothing left to drain and see how much they care whether you love them or hate them, theyll just roll their eyes either way
Mylife Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 hmm mebbe its hard to explain...lol...might as well say it that it is me...and that i think in a way i had a rough time and eventually ended (for other reasons too) with my bf 2 days ago. If u like u can read my other posts tday and few days ago about the break up for a better idea... But by immaturity i dnt mean big things, more like small little things of an 18 year girl (me)...like being really scared of bugs, or something stupid like that.
Author Pyro Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 You're young and good looking and women will appreciate you're respect and admiration of them, because you have something to offer. Wait until you get older and there's nothing left to drain and see how much they care whether you love them or hate them, theyll just roll their eyes either way There will be no looking at glass half empty on this thread. I am who I am and people appreciate me for it and some do not. I can't please everyone. I'd rather live my life happy and stress free then worry about stuff like that. If that were to happen, then so be it.
Author Pyro Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 hmm mebbe its hard to explain...lol...might as well say it that it is me...and that i think in a way i had a rough time and eventually ended (for other reasons too) with my bf 2 days ago. If u like u can read my other posts tday and few days ago about the break up for a better idea... But by immaturity i dnt mean big things, more like small little things of an 18 year girl (me)...like being really scared of bugs, or something stupid like that. Being scared of bugs is no biggie, but there is more to being mature or immature. How you handle situations and how you treat others is a big part of it.
Mylife Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 by the last post...i mean that i am the girl that is the immature one, and my bf told me that numerous times and i guess found it a little difficult to deal with...but we were going to work through it...but then so much other stuff happened instead...
Author Pyro Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 by the last post...i mean that i am the girl that is the immature one, and my bf told me that numerous times and i guess found it a little difficult to deal with...but we were going to work through it...but then so much other stuff happened instead... How do you define being immature?
Mylife Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 but he just couldnt stand that face that i would panic if a bug came within a meter of me...he liked the way i handled situations and always mentioned that i was one of the most caring a genuine girl...one that is really helpful towards others and stuff...but my small immaturities...i hve a feeling...drove him away from me a bit...
Mylife Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 being immature...mebbe not acting ur age...being alittle bit childish...clingy type perhaps...
Author Pyro Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 but he just couldnt stand that face that i would panic if a bug came within a meter of me...he liked the way i handled situations and always mentioned that i was one of the most caring a genuine girl...one that is really helpful towards others and stuff...but my small immaturities...i hve a feeling...drove him away from me a bit... If he considered immaturity as you being afraid of bugs, then you wasted your time with him. That is not immaturity in the least bit. People in their 30's, 40's and older are afraid of bugs. I am 26 and I am afraid of bees and skunks.
burning 4 revenge Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 hmm mebbe its hard to explain...lol...might as well say it that it is me...and that i think in a way i had a rough time and eventually ended (for other reasons too) with my bf 2 days ago. If u like u can read my other posts tday and few days ago about the break up for a better idea... But by immaturity i dnt mean big things, more like small little things of an 18 year girl (me)...like being really scared of bugs, or something stupid like that. You were in your mother when they smashed the Berlin Wall
Author Pyro Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 You were in your mother when they smashed the Berlin Wall I wish that I was old enough to remember that historic moment.
Mylife Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 yeh...alot of ppl have been telling me...i am young...hve a long way to go...but first relationship..ever...and its my first break up...ever...and it happened in 3 months...its just...very difficult to feel like i am young and that so many will come and go...right now...i only want him........
burning 4 revenge Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 I wish that I was old enough to remember that historic moment. I remember I had stolen a pack of Marlboros and my neighbor and I watched it on TV. Even at thirteen or whatever I was I was hoping it would be the first episode of a new and glorious age..its all been rather anti-climactic
katiebour Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 Thanks for the thread Riddler- as a woman I appreciate the sentiment. Let me just say that I love all you good men. I appreciate all you guys who are out there making the world a better place with and for us
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