kcity3 Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 k my ex wanted me back she sent me a message on myspace about how she was depressed and was crying non-stop and to come back to her and that she almost od'd on advil. I really didnt know what to say I was confused becuz i was with this other girl and so i said no. Not even a month later,now I regret it I really want her back the other girl just used me as her sex toy I so want my ex back becuz she really loved me. But its too late now she is with this other guy Ive told her how I felt and at first she didnt believe me but now she does but the tables have turned!Now Im in the position she was in and shes in the postion I was in.She at first said that if her and this other guy dont work out she would call me. Now she is mad and wants me to stop calling and texting her she deleted me on myspace,all that.I just want her back I have all these memories I lived with her for so long I feel really stupid for picking that other girl over her.She controlled me the whole relationship but now she treats this other guy way better than me she lets him boss her around its not fair I was so good to her I never cheated on her or anything like that she was my world I did so much for her. I just want a Second Chance thats all I want.What should I do?
alwayshurt Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 You need to be more specific. Why did you break up the first time? Was it you or her? what was the problem back then? As for now, I would not do anything at all. The more you try to get her back the more you are pushing her away. She is with somebody else and truth is you may have lost her forever. The only option you may have is to just disappear and let her miss you. If you are not around she may reconsider assuming that there are still feelings for you hidden inside her. But if she did not come after you when you rejected her it may be that she was not much in love with you. I know it is hard to take it. try to move on as she did and date other girls. If it is meant to be it will. Good luck to you.
Pentula77 Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 I reckon it was the girl who broke up intially....then you found another girl and she thought wtf ? I'll get him back. Guy shows flakey behaviour with new girl. New girl goes wtf better guy in line. Guy goes back to ex, sorry dude I have a boyfriend now... Solution read every post in second chances and breakups....
norajane Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 Don't worry. She won't be with the new guy for long. Just sit back and stop harassing her. She'll come running when she's tired of the new guy...you've let it be known that you're available as her back-up guy. She controlled me the whole relationship but now she treats this other guy way better than me she lets him boss her around its not fair I was so good to her I never cheated on her or anything like that she was my world I did so much for her.But if you think that letting him boss her around is a sign that she is treating him well, then you've got a screwed up way of thinking about relationships. Treating each other well means neither of you is controlling the other, neither is bossing anyone around - it means you're a team, a partnership. And if you get back together and she's still controlling, and you're the one who always does things for her and she never does for you, then you'll break up again. Unless you like being a doormat?
Author kcity3 Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 You need to be more specific. Why did you break up the first time? Was it you or her? what was the problem back then? As for now, I would not do anything at all. The more you try to get her back the more you are pushing her away. She is with somebody else and truth is you may have lost her forever. The only option you may have is to just disappear and let her miss you. If you are not around she may reconsider assuming that there are still feelings for you hidden inside her. But if she did not come after you when you rejected her it may be that she was not much in love with you. I know it is hard to take it. try to move on as she did and date other girls. If it is meant to be it will. Good luck to you. She was the one that broke up saying she just lost interest.Then 3 days later she sends me the message saying she wants me back.I was with this girl for almost 2 years how can she just be over me like that?
buckdawg Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 nothing. you can't do anything but be yourself, if she doesn't come back it's her problem.
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