candykisses Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 So the guy that I like knows that I like him, I made sure that he knew. One of his friends even confirmed it and told him. Over the past few weeks he has been walking by and smiling and waving at me. One day I didn't see him walk by until he had past by and he looked back to see if I was looking at him and I smiled and waved to him, this is the second time that this has happened. One day I sent him a piece of cake that we had at my office and I asked if he had gotten it and we talked for a couple of minutes. Since then we smile, wave and look at each other every morning and before I leave for the day he will come by and smile. It seems that we are getting comfortable with each other which is good. My question is does it seem like he is interested in me? or just being nice? We don't work together, we just share a building. What do you guys think?
Ocean-Blue Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 If he weren't interested, I think he'd make it obvious. MOST guys wouldn't lead a girl on like that after being told you're into them. I think he likes you. You should approach him. Ask him how your cake was. Or how lame your building is. Whatever. Just talk to him.
woodsfield Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 So the guy that I like knows that I like him, I made sure that he knew. One of his friends even confirmed it and told him. Over the past few weeks he has been walking by and smiling and waving at me. One day I didn't see him walk by until he had past by and he looked back to see if I was looking at him and I smiled and waved to him, this is the second time that this has happened. One day I sent him a piece of cake that we had at my office and I asked if he had gotten it and we talked for a couple of minutes. Since then we smile, wave and look at each other every morning and before I leave for the day he will come by and smile. It seems that we are getting comfortable with each other which is good. My question is does it seem like he is interested in me? or just being nice? We don't work together, we just share a building. What do you guys think? i think he is interested, if nothing else.
jhend2887 Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 Invite him to go get drinks with you and your friends. If he says yes then most likely so. If he says no then you got your answer.
Author candykisses Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 I did ask him how the cake was and he asked if it was my b day and I told him yeah, then he said happy birthday but someone came by and then he left. Since that day, we have not talked, just the smiling and waving. We are both shy so getting comfortable with one another can only be a good thing.
Ocean-Blue Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 I did ask him how the cake was and he asked if it was my b day and I told him yeah, then he said happy birthday but someone came by and then he left. Since that day, we have not talked, just the smiling and waving. We are both shy so getting comfortable with one another can only be a good thing. Why not slip him a note, something sexy and short like "care to meet me downstairs for a cup of coffee?" If that's too daring, just go up to him and strike up a conversation. One of you has to make the first move. Don't wait for him to do it (cause he may lose interest after a while). He could very well be telling his friends, "I wave, I smile...and nothing...when is she going to get the hint!"
Author candykisses Posted October 13, 2007 Author Posted October 13, 2007 I know exactly what you are saying because I feel that way. I know that it is 2007 and it's ok for girls to approach the guy, but I have heard that it is better for the guy to approach the girl on the first couple of times you date, but I also know that guys like it when the girl does the approaching as well. I am at the point where I am tried of waiting and wondering if he is interested,(which I believe he is) and just bite the bullet and ask him out to dinner, but I have never done that before so I don't have to words down, any suggestions? I know it should be easy but I'm pretty shy when it comes to guys that I like.
Ocean-Blue Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 I know exactly what you are saying because I feel that way. I know that it is 2007 and it's ok for girls to approach the guy, but I have heard that it is better for the guy to approach the girl on the first couple of times you date, but I also know that guys like it when the girl does the approaching as well. I am at the point where I am tried of waiting and wondering if he is interested,(which I believe he is) and just bite the bullet and ask him out to dinner, but I have never done that before so I don't have to words down, any suggestions? I know it should be easy but I'm pretty shy when it comes to guys that I like. Yeah, I can dish out advice like "go get em" but I have to admit...I'm quite shy myself. I usually wait for the guy to make the first move (except for a few instances in high school). I think the note thing is a good idea. Or the next time he waves at you, call him over. Use some excuse. Or, call him over and ask him what's up...ask him why he keeps waving.
amber1 Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 I don't usually think that the woman should make the first move, but in this case since he is shy, you might have to. I think that if you ask him to go with you and your friends it might make him uncomfortable since he is shy. I wouldn't ask him to dinner because that might freak him out or be too much too soon. So yeah, I would just start a conversation with him one day at work and casually ask him at the end if he'd like to go for a drink or coffee after work. Say something like, "You know I would like to talk to you a little bit more, how about we meet up for coffee or a drink today after work?" See how he responds.
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