DateAnalyzer Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 I was talking to this girl for the first time the other night and she asked-"is there anything else you want to know about me? And I said-"I think i knoe everything I need to know for now" and then the phone when CLICK-lol What did I say wrong?
directx Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 She might be playing hard to get! Keep calling!
directx Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 she probably figures you were not that interested in her. Or ran out of interest. StarGazer has a point. What was your tone? I can talk someone for hours if I am interested. Others, not so much. Maybe she sensed that it wasnt going anywhere.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 she probably figures you were not that interested in her. Or ran out of interest. StarGazer has a point. What was your tone? I can talk someone for hours if I am interested. Others, not so much. Maybe she sensed that it wasnt going anywhere. well first of all that question is annoying because if she feels there are some things i need to know about her she can just tell me and during that time i may have another question from the things she is sharing about herself.
amber1 Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 She just hung up? How old is she? She sounds kind of immature if she didn't even say bye or at least make an excuse before she got off the phone.
Star Gazer Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 well first of all that question is annoying because if she feels there are some things i need to know about her she can just tell me and during that time i may have another question from the things she is sharing about herself. From that response alone I know exactly what your tone was. You're not showing any interest in her. People who are interested in getting to know someone ask questions, and don't get annoyed so easily. I probably would have hung up the phone too.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 From that response alone I know exactly what your tone was. You're not showing any interest in her. People who are interested in getting to know someone ask questions, and don't get annoyed so easily. I probably would have hung up the phone too. I think her background was a little too loud and I was trying to determine if should just ask to talk to her later in the evening. So I think the background played a role in my lack of excitement to have a conversation
buckdawg Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 that's an interesting question for her to ask isn't it? were you ramrodding here with a bunch of personal questions? seems like there's something we're missing here.
Krytie TV Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Probably for the same reason I wish it was possible to hang up the internet right now
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 that's an interesting question for her to ask isn't it? were you ramrodding here with a bunch of personal questions? seems like there's something we're missing here. how is-"IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT ME" a interesting question? I'm not sitting there with a notpad with a list of questions.
Krytie TV Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Did you happen to answer her question with "I don't think wonen deserve to have dinner bought for them unless sex is imminent"? That may have been why she hung up.
Mustang Sally Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Hmmm. Maybe it was simply a "bad connection"! Know what I mean?
Cinabon Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Before you start having negative thoughts. Have you thought about did something happen to the connection? What if she dropped the phone and it broke? There could be alot of reasons. IF you dont hear from her by tonight I would call her during the weekend. Maybe leave a message asking her if she was okay.
Art_Critic Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Dude.. That was a cue ( is there anything else you want to know about me? ).. it is obvious that she has many many many things about her that you do not know about so when you said no she took that as well.. okay.. eff off.. I guess you are not interested.. If you were interested in her then why didn't you probe her and ask more questions about her when she asked ?..
whichwayisup Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 People in general don't like to be asked tons of questions and be put on the spot, especially during the 1st phone call. Lighten up, man. There are other ways of getting to know someone without asking 100 questions. I think you're still trying too hard and women can sense that, sorry to say this, but it makes them turn the other way.
marlena Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 People in general don't like to be asked tons of questions and be put on the spot, especially during the 1st phone call. Lighten up, man. Yeah, maybe you sounded like the Gustapo! It takes time to get to know a person. Perhaps like SG said she was offended by your tone! Perhaps she thought you were insinuating things!
reboot Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Or maybe she was just saying, "Well, if there's nothing else...." click
Art_Critic Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Man.. Getting laid should not be this hard.. ever
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 Dude.. That was a cue ( is there anything else you want to know about me? ).. it is obvious that she has many many many things about her that you do not know about so when you said no she took that as well.. okay.. eff off.. I guess you are not interested.. If you were interested in her then why didn't you probe her and ask more questions about her when she asked ?.. because I couldn't think of anything at that moment
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 Man.. Getting laid should not be this hard.. ever getting LAID is easy, finding love is like chinese algebra
Author DateAnalyzer Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 Hmmm. Maybe it was simply a "bad connection"! Know what I mean? No I didn't have her number yet, so i know it wasn't a bad connection. In my ad I was asking for a safeplay encounter so i was expecting her to ask me more about what kind of safe play but she was just taking too long to get to that topic
whichwayisup Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 i was expecting her Have less expectations, that way you won't be disappointed...And, if things get better and go your way, you'll be pleasently surprised.
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