NYGoodfella Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 So I never believed in it..not in a million years BUT I was at a college football game over the weekend. I saw this gorgeous girl come out with the Dance team..Normally I would just be like "Wow shes hot" but that evolved into something more. So she does her thing with her team and stands about 20 ft away from me. Honestly I think this girl is damn near perfect. So after some internet investigation, I find her facebook page and friend requested her. She accepts my request and now were facebook friends. (Facebook is like Myspacebut more personal)Anyway..I have no idea what to do from here. Normally I would be like oh man shes hot I wanna try and sleep with her but its more then that. Obviously I am very attracted to her but my interest is so much more. How can I show her Im interested in her as a person and not just sexually? How can I break the ice without looking like a creep? Help please...
kypepeo Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 It's nice that you see her as more and don't just want to sleep with her. Find out what she's into....hobbies, movies she likes....and hang out with her. Get to know her by spending time with her and the rest of it will take care of itself. You'll have a solid relationship based on friendship and mutual respect. You already have an opening so you are halfway there. All the best
Author NYGoodfella Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 It's nice that you see her as more and don't just want to sleep with her. Find out what she's into....hobbies, movies she likes....and hang out with her. Get to know her by spending time with her and the rest of it will take care of itself. You'll have a solid relationship based on friendship and mutual respect. You already have an opening so you are halfway there. All the best Well I do have an In but keep in mind she has no idea who I am...How do I break the ice? Her profile is somewhat vague. I dont want to be another guy that randomly hits on her on the internet.
kypepeo Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Strike up a conversation. Make her see that you are not some creepy guy whom she met over the net. Let her see who you are, what you are interested in and try find out the same about her....normal, everyday small talk until she feels comfortable with you. Don't be too quick to ask her for her number or a meet and greet. If she was going to turn you down, she wouldn't have accepted your friends request. THAT shows that she's open to meeting someone new over the net.
Saxis Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Tell her the truth? That you saw her at the game, and you just had to know who she was? Eh, probably too creepy... When you do get to know her, ask her to teach you how to dance!
Author NYGoodfella Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 you guys are great..ill keep u posted on what happens..
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