xxHopelessRomanticxx Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Hi im Dakota im still in high school [ugh] and i met the most amazing girl ever there....................but of course theres a lot more drama along with her than i hoped. well ill start from the beggining.....about the first day i met her i told her shes really beautiful and i would like to get to know her and weve been friends since then and she has always given me the impression that im the only guy. but two weeks ago [when i was baout to ask her out finally] she tells me that thers a guy she dated last year for 8 months and now hes in alabama but she still REALLY likes him and she will need more time to get over him. which was more than fine at least i had a chance y'know. but i was getting tired of likiing her and getting no feedback whatsoever so one day when we got on the subject [in a note] i told her im trying to get over her, but she didnt reply but she didnt act like she cared so i took a choked down some tears and went on with life. this week i find out another girl likes me and i thought she was cutee so she comes over and we are about to have sex when Andrea called i answered and she goes what ru doing? i said chilling with michelle. then she hangs up on me . so i have michelle go home and call andrea back and i say waht was that for and she goes I LIKE YOU! and all of a sudden im back in love with Andrea [though i never really wasnt] so we start tlking for about an hour and tells me she still only wants to be friends!! im like WTF!! you cockblock me to tell pretty much what i already knew and you were pissed at me for liking another girl even though we arent going out and its really effed up since i still like her and i know she likes him.........so my question is she worth my time? do i really need a girl who wont let me do anyhting even though shes practically going out with another guy anyways??????? and no matter what you guys say im still going to love so also could you give me like some steps to getting over someone without being a jerk??
peace_pipe Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Women do this sort of thing all the time. By the time you are my age, you will have seen this thing happen so many times your head will spin.
Author xxHopelessRomanticxx Posted October 11, 2007 Author Posted October 11, 2007 ugh dont tell me that i HATE it making my heasd spin right now i need a vodka haha
Saxis Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Yep, another classic example of: "I don't want you, but I don't want anyone else to have you either!"
soulseeker Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Let's be fair, men do this type of thing too. OP, youre learning about human behavior, including your own. And funny, what do you think about the way you treated Michelle? Think about that before you come crying here.
jophil28 Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 i thought she was cutee so she comes over and we are about to have sex when Andrea called i answered What are you thinking picking up when you are about to ph**k a chick. You need slappin' ... Andea would have waited until tomorrow to play her stupid push/pull game. You need to get a grip man. You are way too available and needy . Chicks do this shyte if you LET 'em get way with it.
Author xxHopelessRomanticxx Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 And funny, what do you think about the way you treated Michelle? Think about that before you come crying here. ummm first of all i still tlk to her and she doesnt really care i wasnt the one who came on to her anyways i just had her come over and then she started unzipping me but then the phone rang and i answereed without looking at the caller id cus i though it would be my mom. and second i dont appreciate you ****ing wording it like that the whole think about that before you come crying here!!
Author xxHopelessRomanticxx Posted October 12, 2007 Author Posted October 12, 2007 What are you thinking picking up when you are about to ph**k a chick. You need slappin' ... Andea would have waited until tomorrow to play her stupid push/pull game. You need to get a grip man. You are way too available and needy . Chicks do this shyte if you LET 'em get way with it. well i thought it was my mom and why do you think im too available?????
jophil28 Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 and why do you think im too available????? I know that you are "too available" because chicks treat "available" guys just the way that Andea is treating you. They do it because they can get away with it - she gets a HUGE ego boost out of making you jump thru hoops. KIck her sorry butt out of your life. How ? By taking away what she craves most .. cheap ATTENTION.. Just do not talk to her EVER - no contact. That, my young friend, is how it is done.
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