tomwiz Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 For those of you who have been following my story, me and my gf/exgf are on a break right now and have been for almost 2 weeks. I saw her a week ago today and she told me while we were both drinking that she wanted things to work out, she still loved me and texted me that she "needed me". Well that was over a week ago, no contact, nothing, i emailed her about 4 days ago to ask if she meant those things or if it was simply drunken talk. No contact what so ever, i tried calling her one other time, just left a call me when you get this message. And once again nothing. What should I do? Go to her house and ask to speak with her, if it goes badly just suggest that we be done for good no break. It just seems to me like taking some time/space is one thing, but complete avoidance is another
isntitironic Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Bro I can tell you going over there would be a big mistake. It is a push. It is obvious that the things she said were fueled by alcohol and she is confused. It is not very nice of her to be cutting you off this way after texting you she needs you. Take that into consideration. Trust me anything you do at this point can only make things worse. let er come to you. I know this is not what you want to hear but anyone else would be blowing sunshine up your ass.
Author tomwiz Posted October 11, 2007 Author Posted October 11, 2007 I dunno, i know going to her house would be dumb, its just like after saying all that and disapearing, what do i have to lose?
alwayshurt Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Your dignity, as a man! You spoke the words, now it is her turn to make the move. If she really loves you she will look for you otherwise move on and let her go. I am in your same shoes. She calls me she says nice things and then disappears. My situation is a bit different from yours though because she's married and in the process of separating so I can understand she's confused. But I also believe that when there is love any obstacle can be bypassed. She probably sees in me a rebound guy, some sort of a good friend but I cannot do that so I decided to cut her off. and trust me it is really hard. I did not say a word that would give some closure. Nothing! She still calls me sometime but I try to be cool and always say to leave me alone. I don't know if it is the right move but i don't wnat to take the chance. I am so tired to be brokenhearted. It is no worth to become a doormat becuase eventually she will leave you anyway. that is true for everybody. You need to show your integrity and that you can be better off without her. This attitude stimulates actraction on her and she may want to reconsider. NC it is your only option. Good luck.
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