Lookn4love Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 to make a long story short, i was with a man 5 years ago, he had a brother who i knew of but only seen one time cause he lived in another state. Well he has moved back into town, His mother called me one day and gave him the phone, we were talking and he asked me to hook him up with one of my friends, i said i would see what i can do. Since i havent seen him in over 5 years i went to his mothers house to see what he looks like now, so i can tell my friends how he looks, we were sitting there talking i was asking what he wanted in a women, what he likes, what he finds attractive and all that, i was about to leave and he asked me if i was going out, i said i dont know as of yet. he said do u wanna go and get a drink, i said ok since i really didnt have plans. well we went to his house watched movies and got alittle tipsy and one thing led to another only one time though. Well i am confused cause he called me and said that he had a good time with me and chemistry was flying and we clicked, which i wasnt exspecting that considering he wanted me to hook him up with one of my friends. Well everyday since we meet hes been calling me just to see how i am doing. He called last night and asked if i wanted to meet him at a little club down the street, He said i can bring my friends if i want but would like to go and hang out with me. I said i dont know i will see, if he doesnt want to be with me then why is he calling me all the time and seeing how i am doing. If he wants me to set him up with my friends why does he keep asking me to meet him?
Saxis Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 That doesn't really sound very confusing at all... Let's see if I'm getting this straight though! He asked you to set him up with one of your friends. You went over to gauge him a bit, and he took the opportunity to ask you out, and you obliged. You apparently had a pretty good time together, and now he's even more interested in you. Does that sum it up? It's pretty apparent, and you even said it yourself: which i wasnt exspecting that considering he wanted me to hook him up with one of my friends. Past tense. He's not still asking about your friends is he? He's only asking about you. He's got no need to be hooked up when he's already hung up on you! You can't hold it against him that he wasn't interested in you in the first place. After all, he hadn't seen you in 5 years, and that was when you were dating his brother, correct?
andersks Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Be careful. It's possible that he might be calling you for situations involving drinking because of what happened. Meaning, you might be a "bootie call". Especially if he still wants you to hook him up with one of your friends. On the other hand, he could just be using your friends as an excuse to call YOU. You might have to ask him to find out if he's interested in you as a friend, a girlfriend, or a friend with benefits. Otherwise, there's no way to tell for sure.
alli02 Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 ok...so this is what i think... maybe he did want you to hook him up with someone...but then met you and decided he liked you. maybe asking you to hook him up with someone was just a reason to get you to come over so he could spend time with you, and get to know you. if he is calling you everyday to see how you are...chances are he likes you. and he said that when you go out you can bring friends but he wants to hang out with you. are you still friends with his brother?? will he be ok with the 2 of you dating?? this may make things a little weird for you. talk to him
Krytie TV Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 What does "just one time though" mean? You guys had sex? He never said he didn't want to be with you, he just never amended his request. What's likely happening is he is new to the area and he just wants to meet as many people as possible. He probably likes you but doesn't want to close off other options before seeing what's around. I just hope you're not surprised about anything that happened when going to his house. Girls crack me up when they say they went to some guy's house on the first day and then "one thing led to another"... yeah, and he was the knowing tour guide all along.
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