queen of nerds Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 LTR++, broke up about two months ago. I pleaded for a month then gave up and decided to move on. Met unexpectedly this weekend, he suddenly wants to "talk". Talk went not-so-good, he indicates he wants to continue talking though. I'm pissed off after the talk and decide to take time to cool down while doing stuff that I had to do (busy week). He emails me again about talking (something to the effect of "Hi, I'm wondering how we should proceed from here and whether we should talk at all... I'm willing to talk, so if you're willing to contact me feel free to phone me.") I replied that I'd prefer to use email as that works best. Reply verbatim: "I'm not inclined to agree [that emails work better]. So far our communication has been less than stellar. Days have gone by without replies [from you], emails have been ignored, etc. But I don't think using the phone would be any better. So let's go for emails and see what happens." I don't understand, tbh. We're not a couple any more so he gets the same priority that everyone else gets when I'm busy; that is, it takes a couple of days before I can give a thoughtful reply. I'd like some feedback as I'm a bit too peeved to be able to see this objectively.
Ruby Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 I would send him a message back telling him that you would prefer the communication to be done through nothing as you dont want to talk to him He is playing you He realises you stopped trying and he wants that attention back
Author queen of nerds Posted October 11, 2007 Author Posted October 11, 2007 I was hoping that he was a bigger person than that.
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