ladybug63 Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 MM is now leaving messages saying that he is devastated and frustrated. This is the same man that stated "he's not in love with me that way". I am doing good I must say because regardless of the messages I still refuse to submit to him. It would only complicate the situation. Yes this is the hardest thing to do, but like I told him, it may not be the best thing to do but it is indeed the right thing to do. I told him when I was ending it the best way to get over someone is to relinquish all contact. I am fighting with all I have within me. Yes, sometime I get a little lonely but it soon passes I find other things to do. When I find myself thinking on him which is constantly I find a book to read, yoga or whatever that will cease those thoughts. It's only normal to feel this way, but the only way to survive is not give in.
Meaplus3 Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 MM is now leaving messages saying that he is devastated and frustrated. This is the same man that stated "he's not in love with me that way". I am doing good I must say because regardless of the messages I still refuse to submit to him. It would only complicate the situation. Yes this is the hardest thing to do, but like I told him, it may not be the best thing to do but it is indeed the right thing to do. I told him when I was ending it the best way to get over someone is to relinquish all contact. I am fighting with all I have within me. Yes, sometime I get a little lonely but it soon passes I find other things to do. When I find myself thinking on him which is constantly I find a book to read, yoga or whatever that will cease those thoughts. It's only normal to feel this way, but the only way to survive is not give in. ladybug, Your post is right on about NC! Your very strong, keep it up. AP:)
frannie Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 MM is now leaving messages saying that he is devastated and frustrated. This is the same man that stated "he's not in love with me that way". I am doing good I must say because regardless of the messages I still refuse to submit to him. It would only complicate the situation. Yes this is the hardest thing to do, but like I told him, it may not be the best thing to do but it is indeed the right thing to do. I told him when I was ending it the best way to get over someone is to relinquish all contact. I am fighting with all I have within me. Yes, sometime I get a little lonely but it soon passes I find other things to do. When I find myself thinking on him which is constantly I find a book to read, yoga or whatever that will cease those thoughts. It's only normal to feel this way, but the only way to survive is not give in. I'm sorry he's not leaving you alone after you asked him to. Is there any way you can block his messages so you don't have to deal with them..? It's really good to hear that you're working hard on moving on... keep going, you're doing a fantastic job
Author ladybug63 Posted October 14, 2007 Author Posted October 14, 2007 I'm sorry he's not leaving you alone after you asked him to. Is there any way you can block his messages so you don't have to deal with them..? It's really good to hear that you're working hard on moving on... keep going, you're doing a fantastic job Thank you,it's hard but it is very well worth the effort. My philosophy is only the strong survive. I haven't tried blocking the # because sometime he calls from unfamiliar #'s.
PoshPrincess Posted October 15, 2007 Posted October 15, 2007 Thank you,it's hard but it is very well worth the effort. My philosophy is only the strong survive. I haven't tried blocking the # because sometime he calls from unfamiliar #'s. Well done Ladybug! It's weird but back in the day when my exMM was still bombarding me with calls, I found it easier to deal with. In some strange way it made me stronger knowing that HE was still interested in me. By ignoring his calls I felt empowered. I never pick up the phone at home anyway if it's a number I don't know or it's withheld. I just let it go to answerphone. Unfortunately, these days it is NEVER mm anyway!
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