DiGits Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 theres this girl I've had a crush on for about a year, maybe a bit longer, but I've never known anything about her, or had even spoken a word to her, so I didn't expect it to go any further than a crush. She seemed like a great person, and looked as if she had a lot of the same interests as me. Like I said, I had never actually talked to her, and I wasn't stalking her in ANY way, I'm not like that. The thing is, I had no way of ever talking to her without just randomly going up to her, and saying "hi" while she was around her friends, making me look like a fool, so I sucked it up. I've had a few girlfriends in the past, but they were all close friends before we started going out. The other day I'm sitting at my locker, and shes behind me talking to her friend whos locker is next to mine. I have my headphones in and I hear her say "hi" I didn't think it was directed at me, so I went on putting my books in my bag, I turned around and she was looking at me, waved and said hi again. I was kind of shocked, because I had no idea she even knew who I was. I waved, and said hi back. It was pretty awkward because I just didn't know what else to say, so I walked away. I thought saying hi than walking away was better than standing there, making the moment even more awkward. Obviously, if she DID like me, she wasn't shy, and shed try and talk to me again (next time less awkward hopefully). I walk to my bus stop, and see her on the way, she looked at me, smiled and waved, I waved back. She was with 3 friends. I got to the bus, and wasn't sure if she said hi because she liked me, or if she was just being nice. Today I went to school, hoping to try and talk to her, I saw her in the halls, and I noticed she was looking at me. I walked past, I was almost late for class anyways. The day ended, and I went to my locker, there was no sign of her today. Well, I turn around and bam, shes there again behind me with her friend, she said hi, and introduced me to her friend, and herself. I said "hi im... (my name)", they kind of giggled, and things were awkward so I just said, "I gotta go, cya later". The thing is, I've never, ever had a girl come up to me like that. I'm not even sure if she likes me in any way. If I knew she did like me, its still a tough situation, because yea like I said, its kind of awkward. I'm kind of shy, but not really, I don't have trouble talking with girls at all. I have no idea how to keep the convo going past the awkwardness, any tips on what to say? At least I know her name, so I guess you can say we know each other now. Should I stop and talk to her next time I see her, or wait for her to come to me? I'm so used to just being friends with a girl, than it turning into more, I wasn't expecting this to happen at all... Link to post Share on other sites
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