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Dont know if you read my 1st post (entitiled - devasted) well in short my bf of two years finished me out of the blue (said his feeling had chnged and he didnt really love me anymore) obvsiously i am heartbroken... everyday is an exhausting challenge..

 

Well his frend texted me today, asking me why he hadnt been in college... i didnt know obviously (NC) apparantly he hasnt been in monday or tuesday...

 

Im still in touch with my ex's sis, so i rang her and asked how things were goin... she said pete has been lying in each day till like 9is... telling her college starts later on (whcih is not true as i have found out he wasnt in at all) (she isnt telling pete were making contact)

 

So... he's missing college.. and lying in... and a friend i made through pete told me she was out with him and some mates through the weekend and he seemed quiter than usual... ( i dont know her that well.. she might be saying it to make me feel better??? i dnt know...)

 

but anyway what does this all mean? is it a good sign..>? does it mean hes missing me... and NC is working??? or should i not get me hopes up...

 

plz reply!

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It probably does mean he's unhappy with his decision. It also probably means there is no one else. But until he's man enough to call you, honey, then you won't know. If he contacts you and starts going through why he broke up with you, just agree with him. See what happens then...

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Something is obviously going through his head.

 

BUT, at all costs try not get your hopes up Baby, it will not be easy but you must keep calm.

 

NC is primarliy a means of helping recovery, not a method of making someone miss you. But of course that can happen also.

 

take care :)

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